"It's not how big it is, it's what you do with it..."
"It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean..."
We've all heard those comments about male endowment but what do women really have to say about penis size? Read on and see how a bunch of feisty females responded to the perennial question:
"What's the perfect penis size?"
I don't know where you got those responses that penis size isn't important but the reality of it is size does matter to both the man and woman. A man with a large penis has the confidence that he can satisfy any woman and after all making love for the man is all about confidence. More and more research is showing that a larger penis does give more pleasure to a woman especially the girth of the penis. I have never seen a six inch or less dildo. Dildos are all designed large. Women brag about their mens size and I think that just making love with a man with a large penis makes them feel like more of a woman. Women seem to think something terrible will happen if they suddenly come clean that larger is better. I was just on a website from a university study showing that young college girls like larger penises. Maybe the next generation will be more honest.
Sweet Sarah said:
Each woman is different physically, so there's not really a "universal" perfect size. Me? I'm little, so my perfect size is probably 4-5 inches. But one of my friends is a little larger and she likes 5-7 inches. That being said... in my experience, size hasn't been the factor that ultimately made sex good or bad.
A Player said:
I like 'em the size of a nice big juicy cucumber.
A Good Time Girl said:
To me, size absolutely does NOT matter. I'm 4'11" and very petite, so I don't need a whole lot of penis to fill me up. There was one guy who was so small that I wasn't sure if we'd had sex after we were done. (He was probably a couple of inches long and skinny as a pencil.) But anything bigger than that is generally ok. It's true that there's some "size queens" out there (women who just love really big penises), but that seems to be more of a mental thing than a physical need.
A Sporty Girl said:
Girth is probably more important to me than length. Having said that, the perfect size for me is about 6 inches.
A Thinker said:
I've had more problems with too large than too small. Perfect? 4-6 inches, with medium girth. Here's the pros and cons on small. The cons? There's trouble keeping it inside me during intercourse - and constantly having to "re-set" the table breaks the rhythm of things. The pros? Having a smaller penis means fuller insertion, and thus, more friction on the clitoris. Plus, smaller penises are easier to give head to. So my preference is on the smaller size. Here's the cons of too big (girth especially). It can be physically uncomfortable, and it makes me feel inadequate - like I can't take on more of him. Plus, having to build up slowly to full insertion breaks the rhythm of a sexual encounter. I havenít had a ton of experience with too big, but in general I found more problems with them than pleasure or fulfillment. Could have been my partner, though, not his organ...
A Good Time Girl said:
8" long, 6" around is good for me... but if you know how to use what you've got, it goes a LOOOOOOOOOONG way!
A Player said:
You really want to rock our world? Follow this simple advice: start us off with oral sex. And if you make a few groans of pleasure while you're down there so we think you're enjoying it, this will dramatically enhance our excitement and pleasure. When your woman is ready for sex, ask her which sexual position she prefers. Trust me, all women have their favorite position. Mine is being on top and having my boyfriend use his hands to stimulate me; this is one of the best ways for women to climax during actual intercourse. It gives us control and feels great -- and with this position, it doesn't really matter what size he is. Also, if you're handy with a vibrator, try that out. Talk about fun!
A Thinker said:
The guy I've been seeing is 35 and he's great in bed - but since he didn't know the particular fact I'm about to share with you, I'd assume that most other guys don't know it, either. Here goes: There are verrrrry few nerves up inside the vagina. The best way I can describe it is like a novacained lip - we can feel pressure (from your cock moving around inside us, or just from the way it expands that space) but there's not much surface feeling. The sensitive nerves you want to pay attention to are around the the vast pink area between the lips. That whole entire area is just crazy with feeling. You might wonder, then: how do women have orgasms thru sex? Well, I asked a friend who's a sex therapist and she confirmed that very few women can have orgasms directly thru intercourse. Many are faking it - they think they're the only women who can't, and they want to please their guy. Want to be amazing in bed? Trust me: learn how to make a woman come with your hand or your mouth - and be eager to do it often. She'll be putty in your hands forever. If you're eager to make a woman come, your value in her mind goes up like 20 billion points. Seriously. It's because most guys don't bother, or they're just clueless. This isn't to say that sex doesn't feel great. It does. We love it. But a guy who knows to make us come orally FIRST, and then has sex with us - that's a guy who really knows what he's doing. Just by knowing that, you'll beat out 75% of the guys out there. And then the women will follow you around.
As a woman, I am going to be honest with any and every male. The answer to if size counts: NO!!! It's all about how you work it that counts. You can be hung as a horse and still can't satisfy a woman. You can be as small as an inch worm, but if you know the right spots to hit it, then it shouldn't be a problem. When having sex with a woman, there should be communication. Once you both can understand each other's likes and dislikes, then the sexual experience can be truly rewarding with each other. Size does not count, however I would prefer a well endowed male who can take care of business.
Okay, guys. Here's some general information. 1. Four to eight inches is considered the normal range of penis size for adult males. 2. Five and a half inches is the average length of the adult penis. 3. There is no correlation between penis size and height; size of the foot, hand, nose or any other body part because there is no 'bone' in the penis, contrary to the popular euphamism. 4. There is very little correlation between penis size and ethnicity. Black guys are slightly larger than white guys, and Asian guys are very slightly smaller than white guys - there's not a big difference. 5. Width IS more important that length as far as making women happy, BUT copulation isn't what most women care about anyway. We like touching and caressing and being treated like we matter and not like a body on a slab. 6. Most importantly, penis size has nothing to do with who you are as a person and what you can accomplish with your life. You are important, not because of your penis size, but because of what you do with the gifts God gave you. Be a man. Be unselfish. Do good and make people's lives better. 7. Treat people with respect. Stop dehumanizing each other and stop thinking of people as objects for your pleasure.
Each and everyone of you is a product of natural selection. Guys, that means that your daddies, and their daddies, and their daddies... were PICKED (ie selected) by the women of their time. If they didn't like what they saw or felt in dick size, presumably they would have left and found someone else. Another way of putting it is, you are the product of past desirables, which would include your dick. So if the "average" range of dick sizes is between say 5 and 7 inches, then that indicates that females have been selecting that size on average for thousands of years. If the ONLY thing that mattered was a big dick, then all males would currently be very large (10 inches or more?) since past females would have selected only the biggest size. Strangely, but as a matter of fact, you have (past) females to thank for whatever size you are now. I know that most of this will be waisted on most of you. Statistically for every "large" male there is a similarly sized female. Big penis genes can also produce big vaginal canals.
All this talk about "am I big enough? Am I too big? Am I normal." I've got news for you, everone is different. Take it from me there are women out their who like small dicks. Just like there are women who like big ones. If you take the time to get to know the woman a little instead of trying to jump in her panties from the moment you meet her, maybe your size won't matter so much. As long as you're willing to put the time in to please her in other ways. There are women who will say "I need it to be really big" but that's only her preference. There are some who think 5 to 6 inches is just right. Women are just as different as men and if one makes you feel bad because you don't have what she wants then she probably wasn't worth the time anyway. What matters is, "does your size please you?" "Does it make you feel good about yourself?" If what you have doesn't please you, then it won't please anyone else because you'll be so worried about your size that your technique will suffer. And technique is a BIG part of what goes into pleasing a woman. So please get over it and move on. Learn how to use what you've got and you'll be successful with the women.
Mr Average Penis
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