Yeah, sometimes it takes a long time. Like I said, I tell stories so she keeps engaged mentally and the slow pace kind of sneaks up on her physically. Lol I did not mean to imply your husband wasn't hitting the spot, I just know I learned this technique in the past few years reading about tantric sex.

CCG, that is very interesting. I have used that similar technique, but have not seen any squirters. Big orgasms, and yeah if you ride the wave right, multiple ones. It must be something else to experience.

I guess me and my husband just need to take more time. Hes always willing to take the time- I'm the one who moves it along more often then not!

Good description CCG!

I'm really not interested in squirting- but I would love to experience a g-spot orgasm. I have very intense clitoral orgasms- but never a g-spot. I think we've been on the right track with that though.

I saw this thread, and thought I'd share my 2 cents with you. I started squirting about 4 years ago while I was in a really horny period of my life. It was something that I had wanted to try for many years, but I couldn't ever quite achieve it. Then one night, when I was drinking tequila and I had been watching some squirting porn and was really turned on and excited about doing it, it happened. Not really a lot the first time, and in fact, my partner wasn't convinced that I had actually done it at all, but I knew, because it was such an intensely pleasurable experience.

After that, I could do it just about any time I wanted. I explored it as much as I could, and now I am what you would call an extreme squirter, ie. I can shoot cum across the room and squirt all night long, over and over. The more you do it, the more ecstatic the experience is. And, it's addictive. Contrary to what people might think, it is a choice for me to squirt or not squirt with my orgasms. I usually choose to do it, but on occasion, I don't want to, so I don't. It's like a new option lol. And it's a different kind of orgasm, that can happen independently or in conjunction with a clitoral or vaginal orgasm. I hope that helps anyone that has questions. If you want to see me in action, I have videos online, if you just do a search for me on yahoo. Soon, I'm going to do a series of instructional squirting vids for anyone who wants to learn how.

I'm always happy to see people discussing it, though! Great forum

Yes, Squirting is very real. I had an ex-girlfriend that would squirt so much, we would either have to put down some plastic on the bed, or simply plan on washing all the sheets and blankets. At first, it was a real turn on for me, then, it kinda just became a pain in the ass. According to her, it was all about hitting her G-Spot. I could get her to do it every time when doing it 'doggie'. I'm about 8 1/4"L and on the better side of average in girth. That said, the g-spot is not very far in so even if you were on the smaller side, it would be possible to hit it. Choosing the right position would be important though. Good luck!

A man could be 2 inches long and most likely be able to hit the g-spot.

Still don't think I really care about squirting myself. Seems like an awfully big mess to clean up afterward!

Firefly you may just be right about it creating a huge mess to clean up when you really just want to go to sleep. However, I think if I could get my wife to squirt, it would be worth it to know that she really did enjoy that one so much I would not mind doing the clean up. Thanks.

Lol!! But chances are, my husband wouldn't be the one cleaning up the mess. I would!

I'm guessing you thought I was a man (the comment about just wanting to go to sleep, although I have to admit, I like to go to sleep like a man after sex!), but I'm a woman. And while I would love to experience a g-spot orgasm, I have no desire to squirt.

I think its great that you want to please your wife so much. Shes lucky to have you if pleasing her is your motivation. Just be sure you motivation isn't just to pat yourself on the back. Some men are like that- it isn't about her pleasure, its about the man and his ego. But you sound like you genuinely desire her pleasure!

Squirtng is real. After 15 years of marriage and some learning on my part my wife started squirtng a few months ago. Sometimes it's more of a gush or steady drip, sometimes it's an actual squirt which shoots about 6 inches. She doesn't get the intense sensations some people report but says it still feels good. Any suggestions about how to increase her sensations would be great.

If a couple is really in tune with each and in love who cares if she can squirt? Would it be exciting to see my wife do it in person? Sure would! But I don't think anything less of her because we haven't figured it out, first priority is making each other happy. My wife was married over 20 years with her ex and we have been married over 5 years now. Recently one night she experienced her first G-spot orgasm, it was FANTASTIC as she said. The planets were inline and it happened, found most things are best when you just go with the flow. I still wish I could get her to squirt but not going to dwell on it

Still don't want to squirt. Just am not interested in it. I have very (VERY!!) intense clitoral orgasms and enjoy them immensely. Yeah- I would like to experience a g-spot orgasm- and do get very intense sensations from it - but I don't want to squirt!