there is one thing in your post which makes me confused a bit:
"I am fairly ok with one aspect (length/girth) but very concerned about the other (length/girth)."
So which one is it?
That aside, there's nothing wrong with your tool. There are few things to keep in mind when it comes to dick size:
- not all "keys" fit perfectly to all "keyholes" ie it is not all about the absolute size but how things fit well together. What someone may think of as small, someone else may think of as too big.
- without a proper reference size in pictures can be deceiving. For example, my tool is about 7.5" (add or take 1/4" depending on prevailing weather conditions) long but due to my height (6ft 3") it doesn't look overly impressive in head-to-toe pictures. Doesn't look small either but to tell you the truth, as long as it works I couldn't care less.
- more the woman is into you, your dick miracuously gets bigger
My advice would be, stop thinking if it would satisfy a woman; get the game going and find out.
If life keeps throwing nothing but lemons at you, make a lemonade!