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#35198 - 11/30/11 08:50 PM Women, how long do you like intercourse to last?
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Ladies, I have recently rediscovered a phenomenon that I knew before. I have long contended that most women don't like to make love for a long time, despite what porn movies try to show. Truth is, most people don't like to. Women get dry and get tied of being banged on. Men find it difficult to last or get tired if they do last.

Recently I tried Levitra to see how it would reduce my refractory period or recuperation interval, which is normally about 30-60 minutes before I can go a second time. I found it amazing - I could get hard again when I thought about it, stayed hard most of the four hours, and could go for as long as I wanted. I couldn't cum any more often that I already can - about three times in one long night - but I could physically have intercourse for a long, long time or over and over.

The two women I was with at different times, one younger in her 40's and one older in her 70's, both got tired. Both love sex and have always prided themselves on wearing men out. But I wore them out, with oral sex and intercourse, and it was psychologically challenging for them as well as physically demanding.

So, for how long and how many times do you REALLY like to make love? I contend that most people who are beyond the new "f--- like bunnies" stage might like to make love once or twice, with a half hour or more in between, and with not more than about 10 or maybe 15 minutes of actual thrusting, if that. 10 minutes is along time. People get tired, dry, bored, sore. If you are spending all day or night in bed, then changing positions and taking breaks makes the entire session last longer. But I still contend that most people do not like to have actual intercourse last for more than 10 or 15 minutes.

Agree? Am I off base? Is is even shorter than that? Or do you like to rut around for 30-45 minutes?
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#35200 - 11/30/11 10:49 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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Originally Posted By: OlderMan
But I still contend that most people do not like to have actual intercourse last for more than 10 or 15 minutes.


I'd say that's about right, OM. As with most everything, quality is more important than quantity.

It's important to change positions too. Leg muscles cramp, back muscles get sore, etc, etc. And you're right about getting dry after a while. Not comfortable for us and it surely can't be for you, either.

One other thing to point out ... women don't always have to have an orgasm for sex to be satisfying. Now if a man pays no attention to my needs at all, then he's not going to get invited back, but I'm not a stickler about having to have mine. I can still get a lot of enjoyment from sex even if I don't orgasm.
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#35207 - 12/01/11 03:08 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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id say 45 min to 75 minutes for me. more than that and I start getting tired/sore
& theres a reason they invented lube :p although if im worked up enough I dont really need it.
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#35212 - 12/01/11 07:30 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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I would probably guess at 15 - 20 minutes of penetrative sex. I don't really know how long we take because I never time it. However an ideal lovemaking session lasts for around 3 hours, including mutual masturbation, petting, oral sex, whatever.

I'm with Granny_Granola with regards to leg cramps etc. My partner has trouble with his hands and shoulders because of his work. I have trouble with my arms, hips, neck and back, so any position is uncomfortable for one or both of us for any length of time.

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#35213 - 12/01/11 08:23 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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For most of the women I have had sex with, 10-30 minutes was the usual range. Those women who were very vaginally orgasmic might want to go longer, but after about 3 orgasms, or so, most were sated and/or tired. For those women who seldom orgasmed with penetrative sex, 10-15 minutes was usually plenty.

There were times I spent multiple hours in bed with a woman but there were multiple breaks involved.

If your premise is that the average woman does not like to screw for an hour or more on end, I would entirely agree.


Edited by myrealname (12/01/11 08:24 AM)

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#35220 - 12/01/11 10:32 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: myrealname]
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Originally Posted By: myrealname
There were times I spent multiple hours in bed with a woman but there were multiple breaks involved.


Oh yeah, serial sex. I like it smile
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#35222 - 12/01/11 10:49 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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Id say 15-30 min of actual nonstop penetration at a time
I'm a big fan of serial sex and enjoy changing it up constantly throughout. Speed it up... slow it down...nothing wrong with going back to foreplay in between.

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#35224 - 12/01/11 11:03 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: nichjay]
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Originally Posted By: nichjay
Speed it up... slow it down...nothing wrong with going back to foreplay in between.


Mmmmm ... yes indeed. I could do foreplay all day long.
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#35226 - 12/01/11 11:10 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: granny__granola]
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Its the best part!

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#35227 - 12/01/11 11:20 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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Im with OM and GG on this one-- 10 to 15 minutes of penetration is good.

I think for many women, much longer then that can be uncomfortable and unsatisfying. When paying attention to the clock, you can realize that 10 minutes is a pretty long time for penetration and thrusting! I don't think me and my hubby have made it to 10 minutes of thrusting very often even and when we do- its usually because he may be having an issue.

Now when it comes to foreplay and playing around in-between penetration-- that can go on for awhile! wink

lilmiss and pinkflames are way beyond me! wink I don't think me and hubby have ever spent an entire 3 hours on sex either. lol. Now we have done body massages and such that lead into sex and foreplay. Those times do last a long time, but I don't think we've ever made it to 3 hrs before. Hats off to you on that one pinkflames! wink

I don't orgasm with pentrative sex-- maybe thats why I'm in the 10 to 15 minute range. And I have to say- that in that time period, I really do need to have the pace varied. If some man is just pounding away for 10 minutes- after a bit, it goes either numb or sore. THen a person can get to the point where their thinking "just finish it already"! I start to feel like a masturbatory doll more then a partner.

For me also- it may depend on how turned on I am. The more sexed up- the longer I can go. The problem with that is-- the more I'm into it, the quicker my hubby goes= then I'm left wanting more.





Edited by Firefly (12/01/11 11:22 AM)
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#35228 - 12/01/11 11:24 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: Firefly]
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Originally Posted By: Firefly
The problem with that is-- the more I'm into it, the quicker my hubby goes= then I'm left wanting more.


LOL ... there is that!

One thing about older men ... it might take them longer to get erect and to be ready, but once they get going, they last longer. No Quick Draw McGraw smile
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#35234 - 12/01/11 12:15 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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Us younger guys might be Quick Draw McGraw but we're able to go again pretty soon! Haha

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#35235 - 12/01/11 12:18 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: nichjay]
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Originally Posted By: nichjay
Us younger guys might be Quick Draw McGraw but we're able to go again pretty soon! Haha


That's a good point, too ... shakehands
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#35237 - 12/01/11 12:35 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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Do older guys lose sensation or is just that their experience enables them to last longer?

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#35239 - 12/01/11 12:40 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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Well, I don't know the answer to that. I would think it's the experience, but I guess I don't know for certain.

The man I'm seeing now certainly doesn't have any difficulty reaching climax, which would tend to make me think he hasn't lost any sensation.
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#35241 - 12/01/11 12:58 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: nichjay]
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Originally Posted By: nichjay
Do older guys lose sensation or is just that their experience enables them to last longer?


Our bodies tend to slow down a bit as we grow older. Save for few exceptions decreased sensitivity and geting older go hand in hand. But than again, it has a lot to do with better understanding of how things work, better control, and - perhaps more than anything else - realzation that the finishing line is not the goal but the race itself.
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#35272 - 12/02/11 07:49 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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As for how long it should last - for as long as it it mutually pleasurable and satisfying. And satisfaction doesn't have to involve orgasm/ejaculation.
How long that is can and does vary from partner to partner and even with the same partner, dependant on many circumstances.
I've known partners who could 'enjoy' for 20 minutes or so, with variations in 'speed' and positions, before orgasming or being satisfied (not necessarily having an orgasm) but when really 'in the mood' could be completely, exhaustedly, satisfied from a less than 2 minute 'quickie'.

Satisfaction/pleasure are themselves such variable things and I think change with experience, for both men and women - knowledge, control, consideration and most importantly learning that pleasure/satisfaction given can immeasurably increase that that is just taken, to the point where the eventual ejaculation/orgasm, if it is in deed reached, is just an added, although welcome 'bonus'.

As for the age thing.
At 55 I do take longer to reach full erection (but getting there can be 'fun' with an understanding and knowledgeable partner) but do eventually get as hard and full as I ever did. I have certainly not lost any sensitivity and have no problems with cumming but I can now control when it happens, almost to being able to 'produce on command' - when my partner is ready/satisfied/had enough. Admittedly when it happens it is not as copious or 'powerful' as it use to be but it is still very enjoyable and satisfying.
As my, hopefully permanent, partner is only 38 and obviously not wanting children, not wanting the pill and hating condoms I had a sperm count done and it is now low enough to 'risk it' at all but 'peak times'. 'Recovery time' has increased to over an hour. Up to my 30s sometimes I didn't 'lose' it and once I'd got my breath and senses back could keep going - and re this thread, sometimes inconsiderately not always to the pleasure of my partner. The 5 or 6 times a night sessions have long gone - twice is now my limit, maybe 3 if really 'encouraged'. Happily due to my 'lasting' and 'cum when ready' abilities this is enough to keep my partner satisfied and happy.


Edited by JipTu (12/02/11 07:50 AM)

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#35275 - 12/02/11 08:23 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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Nice post, Jiptu smile
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#35277 - 12/02/11 08:33 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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My wife really doesn't like more than about ten minutes. She orgasms unstoppably with penetrative sex and after a few she is satisfied enough and would prefer it to stop.

Whereas with all this encouragement I would rather keep going.

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#35285 - 12/02/11 09:04 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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JipTu, great post - right on target. We sound pretty similar, although it doesn't take me any longer to get hard than it used to. Like you, I can now go for a long time such that I usually end up speeding up to get done when my partner has had enough, unless I haven't had it in awhile. My recovery time and ability to cum two or maybe three times in one long night is about the same as you.

One thing I really like now is being able to make long, delicious love such that she becomes delirious over time. Try Levitra: even if you're like me and don't need it to get hard or have sex cure impotence, it makes for a very fun long night of repeated sessions without the side effects of Viagra (so I've been told).
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#35286 - 12/02/11 09:06 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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And for the record, ladies, I love to switch positions but can't imagine going for 45-75 minutes of continuous thrusting without becoming tired, bored, and raw. Good on you for being able to enjoy it, and for your men to indulge you!
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#35294 - 12/04/11 03:46 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: McAndrew]
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Quote:
Whereas with all this encouragement I would rather keep going.


Exactly my "problem". I am totally addicted to my partner's pleasure - I crave for and "feed" on it. More she is excited more I am ready and willing to serve her with even more.
This creates sort of a snow-ball effect and quite often turns into a complete frenzy at the end of which we both are completelly exhausted. If I cum at the end or not makes no difference - misty eyes and satisfied smile is all I'll ever need.


Edited by SirFoggy (12/04/11 03:50 AM)
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#35295 - 12/04/11 08:36 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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Exactly! Great point, SirFoggy.

If I can driver her over the edge so she loses control and is operating on pure animal-in-heat instinct, I feel fantastic whether I cum or not. I know I'll get mine. To me, it's about her getting hers.
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#35301 - 12/04/11 03:17 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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Originally Posted By: OlderMan
And for the record, ladies, I love to switch positions but can't imagine going for 45-75 minutes of continuous thrusting without becoming tired, bored, and raw. Good on you for being able to enjoy it, and for your men to indulge you!


well if your saying 45-75 minutes of the guy doing all the work.. lol
when I say 45+ minutes, that switching poss. & for instance could be cowgirl or sim positions with me doing more of the work. and some of that time is slow intimate thrusting on his part.. not as tiring.
45 minutes of hard fast thrusting would probably kill him lol


Edited by lilmissnaughty (12/04/11 03:17 PM)
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#35305 - 12/04/11 04:24 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: lilmissnaughty]
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Originally Posted By: lilmissnaughty

45 minutes of hard fast thrusting would probably kill him lol


I think that would probably kill me too! lol
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#35307 - 12/04/11 07:16 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: Firefly]
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Originally Posted By: Firefly
Originally Posted By: lilmissnaughty

45 minutes of hard fast thrusting would probably kill him lol


I think that would probably kill me too! lol


Well, there's far worse ways to go. laugh

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#35308 - 12/04/11 09:25 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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I have done 45 minutes with breaks for lube and changing positions, and maybe a short 1 or 2 min break here or there. Even though the sex itself can be invigorating...I just don't think after 35 minutes, "we should go another 10 minutes."

I've gone down on women for over an hour, and things get numb after awhile no matter how you change it up.

The times I've gone the longest while having intercourse was where my cock was in her cul-de-sac and she kept lubricating internally over and over and cumming repeatedly over a long period. Now THAT makes it worth it.
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#35310 - 12/05/11 02:44 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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Originally Posted By: OlderMan


The times I've gone the longest while having intercourse was where my cock was in her cul-de-sac and she kept lubricating internally over and over and cumming repeatedly over a long period. Now THAT makes it worth it.


well maybe thats why I dont mind longer sessions & neather does hubby, I will often cum at least 5-6 times in that time and sometimes even into double digits....
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#35312 - 12/05/11 04:08 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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I wish i was like that lilmiss! wink
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#35314 - 12/05/11 04:51 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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*suthern accent here*

Oh its absilutly ex-zasting being this orgasmic... noway
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#35327 - 12/06/11 02:50 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: lilmissnaughty]
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"Oh its absilutly ex-zasting being this orgasmic... "

I can't think of any other kind of exhaustion that feels so good.

Will be back home for 2-weeks leave for the upcoming holidays. Boy oh boy, am I going to get exhausted blush
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#35895 - 01/31/12 01:40 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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Depends...10-15 minutes somedays. 30-45 minutes if its oral, vaginal, anal, the works!

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#35900 - 01/31/12 07:06 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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People tend to overestimate the duration of intense experiences so lots of people think that the vaginal sex they are engaging in lasts somewhat longer than it really does.

According to this group of sex therapists, for most couples the ideal duration of actual penetrative intercourse is 7-13 minutes:
http://www.medindia.net/news/The-Ideal-T...tes-33811-1.htm

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#35901 - 01/31/12 07:08 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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I have a clock right next to my bed.
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#35919 - 02/01/12 10:13 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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My wife uses a soft-boiled egg timer.

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#35923 - 02/01/12 06:25 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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Mostly, we have sex during the four hours on Saturdays while my daughter visits her father. We always set an alarm to make sure we don't get forget to pick her up.

I rarely take note of how long actual penetration takes but we're touching in some sexual way for at least two and a half hours on these days.

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#35939 - 02/03/12 04:29 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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5-10 minutes is plenty for me... now when we go "all out" and have all the extra play time in, an hour or more even can be fun!

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#35942 - 02/03/12 11:52 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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2 1/2 hours pinkflames?!? wow. Thats longer then many movies! lol..
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#35945 - 02/03/12 12:56 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: pinkFlames]
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Originally Posted By: pinkFlames
we're touching in some sexual way for at least two and a half hours on these days.


We used to do that, too. I can remember times when we would lie in bed (or maybe out on the couch) for hours, just making out. Two or three hours of that and I'm a quivering puddle of jelly. And then when he finally entered me, there were times I swear I thought I was gonna pass out.

I highly recommend marathon makeout sessions smile
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#35948 - 02/03/12 11:49 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: Firefly]
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Originally Posted By: Firefly
2 1/2 hours pinkflames?!? wow. Thats longer then many movies! lol..


Much better than movies. laugh

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#35949 - 02/04/12 02:25 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: granny__granola]
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"I highly recommend marathon makeout sessions smile "
Agreed. In many ways I like and enjoy these much more than the "normal" ones. There's a gradual but steady build-up of pleasure and after some time the whole body is buzzing and tingling and even the slightest of touches creates waves of sensations rushing all over and throughout the body. When cumming in a "normal" session I can pretty much pin-point where (cock, balls, etc) my pleasure is coming from; it is focused, fairly short and somewhat "violent" event. Climax of the "marathon" session is completelly different. Source of pleasure is my body as a whole especially those parts in touch with my partner. I almost have a feeling of flowing out of mine and into the partner's body. When all this energy is finally released it feels almost as some sort of spiritual experience.

"Much better than movies. laugh "
pffft.... movies don't get even close.
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#35952 - 02/04/12 12:57 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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Make out sessions is something that I miss very much.

I love my hubby dearly, but just "making out" is not one of his strengths. I love spending time just kissing and petting to get revved up-- but hes not a really great kisser unfortunately.

Hes gotten a lot better over the years though! But still- its not what he does very well. I never really had a kissing issue with anyone else I was ever serious with.

The other issue is no matter how much he brushes his teeth or washes his goatee- they always seem to smell a bit funky to me. Thats a HUGE turnoff.

He turns me on in so many other ways- but kissing is not one of them.

THis is very disappointing to me. I spend time fantasizing about major make-out sessions because I just don't get it in my real life.

Those of you who do get it-- cherish it! Its a big part of lovemaking and being together-- and when its not there, you really do miss it.

Don't get me wrong- he has his skills that are highly satisfying! I just wish I didn't miss the kissing so much. (we close mouth kiss every day and say "I love you" every day. But I want the deep, passionate tongue kisses sometimes...)
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#35953 - 02/04/12 01:02 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
JipTu Offline
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Registered: 05/14/11
Posts: 693
Loc: Yorks UK
Do the clock watchers have to 'punch in', in every sense of the term?

Arousal can start hours before, during a meal with a nice bottle of wine (or two), knowing looks and a few intimate but none sexual touching and grow into a crescendo much, much later - following not only physical foreplay but verbal and mental.
Who can say when sex starts? I've known partners who've had me 'zinging' just by a look in her eye at lunch time but the 'promise' was fulfilled until bedtime.

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#35957 - 02/04/12 04:31 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: JipTu]
myrealname Offline
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Registered: 04/21/08
Posts: 417
Loc: Indiana
Originally Posted By: JipTu
Do the clock watchers have to 'punch in', in every sense of the term?

Arousal can start hours before, during a meal with a nice bottle of wine (or two), knowing looks and a few intimate but none sexual touching and grow into a crescendo much, much later - following not only physical foreplay but verbal and mental.
Who can say when sex starts? I've known partners who've had me 'zinging' just by a look in her eye at lunch time but the 'promise' was fulfilled until bedtime.


I see. So that means I was having sex continuously from the time I turned 15 until I finally actually got laid?

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#36117 - 02/25/12 10:12 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
Groovin Offline
journeyman

Registered: 01/30/11
Posts: 64
Loc: Maine
Brings to mind Richard Pryor's old standup routine about how he could not last in intercourse for more than three minutes!

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#177855 - 01/25/16 01:52 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
Vincenzo60 Online   content
stranger

Registered: 01/02/16
Posts: 20
Loc: Pennsylvania
Women like intercourse to last 10-15 minutes as you had stated. I usually am able to thrust for 10 minutes before I ejaculate.

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#178049 - 01/19/17 11:12 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
diegonieves Offline
stranger

Registered: 01/19/17
Posts: 2
Loc: India
I think half an hour, But some men simply can't satisfy his lady. And it can leave you frustrated, embarrassed and feeling like a failure.improve skills and try to gave her as much intimacy ,your lady will be less complaint.

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