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#35198 - 11/30/11 08:50 PM Women, how long do you like intercourse to last?
OlderMan Offline
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Ladies, I have recently rediscovered a phenomenon that I knew before. I have long contended that most women don't like to make love for a long time, despite what porn movies try to show. Truth is, most people don't like to. Women get dry and get tied of being banged on. Men find it difficult to last or get tired if they do last.

Recently I tried Levitra to see how it would reduce my refractory period or recuperation interval, which is normally about 30-60 minutes before I can go a second time. I found it amazing - I could get hard again when I thought about it, stayed hard most of the four hours, and could go for as long as I wanted. I couldn't cum any more often that I already can - about three times in one long night - but I could physically have intercourse for a long, long time or over and over.

The two women I was with at different times, one younger in her 40's and one older in her 70's, both got tired. Both love sex and have always prided themselves on wearing men out. But I wore them out, with oral sex and intercourse, and it was psychologically challenging for them as well as physically demanding.

So, for how long and how many times do you REALLY like to make love? I contend that most people who are beyond the new "f--- like bunnies" stage might like to make love once or twice, with a half hour or more in between, and with not more than about 10 or maybe 15 minutes of actual thrusting, if that. 10 minutes is along time. People get tired, dry, bored, sore. If you are spending all day or night in bed, then changing positions and taking breaks makes the entire session last longer. But I still contend that most people do not like to have actual intercourse last for more than 10 or 15 minutes.

Agree? Am I off base? Is is even shorter than that? Or do you like to rut around for 30-45 minutes?
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#35200 - 11/30/11 10:49 PM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
granny__granola Offline
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Originally Posted By: OlderMan
But I still contend that most people do not like to have actual intercourse last for more than 10 or 15 minutes.


I'd say that's about right, OM. As with most everything, quality is more important than quantity.

It's important to change positions too. Leg muscles cramp, back muscles get sore, etc, etc. And you're right about getting dry after a while. Not comfortable for us and it surely can't be for you, either.

One other thing to point out ... women don't always have to have an orgasm for sex to be satisfying. Now if a man pays no attention to my needs at all, then he's not going to get invited back, but I'm not a stickler about having to have mine. I can still get a lot of enjoyment from sex even if I don't orgasm.
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#35207 - 12/01/11 03:08 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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id say 45 min to 75 minutes for me. more than that and I start getting tired/sore
& theres a reason they invented lube :p although if im worked up enough I dont really need it.
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#35212 - 12/01/11 07:30 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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I would probably guess at 15 - 20 minutes of penetrative sex. I don't really know how long we take because I never time it. However an ideal lovemaking session lasts for around 3 hours, including mutual masturbation, petting, oral sex, whatever.

I'm with Granny_Granola with regards to leg cramps etc. My partner has trouble with his hands and shoulders because of his work. I have trouble with my arms, hips, neck and back, so any position is uncomfortable for one or both of us for any length of time.

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#35213 - 12/01/11 08:23 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
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For most of the women I have had sex with, 10-30 minutes was the usual range. Those women who were very vaginally orgasmic might want to go longer, but after about 3 orgasms, or so, most were sated and/or tired. For those women who seldom orgasmed with penetrative sex, 10-15 minutes was usually plenty.

There were times I spent multiple hours in bed with a woman but there were multiple breaks involved.

If your premise is that the average woman does not like to screw for an hour or more on end, I would entirely agree.


Edited by myrealname (12/01/11 08:24 AM)

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#35220 - 12/01/11 10:32 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: myrealname]
granny__granola Offline
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Originally Posted By: myrealname
There were times I spent multiple hours in bed with a woman but there were multiple breaks involved.


Oh yeah, serial sex. I like it smile
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#35222 - 12/01/11 10:49 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
nichjay Offline
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Id say 15-30 min of actual nonstop penetration at a time
I'm a big fan of serial sex and enjoy changing it up constantly throughout. Speed it up... slow it down...nothing wrong with going back to foreplay in between.

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#35224 - 12/01/11 11:03 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: nichjay]
granny__granola Offline
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Originally Posted By: nichjay
Speed it up... slow it down...nothing wrong with going back to foreplay in between.


Mmmmm ... yes indeed. I could do foreplay all day long.
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#35226 - 12/01/11 11:10 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: granny__granola]
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Its the best part!

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#35227 - 12/01/11 11:20 AM Re: Women, how long do you like intercourse to last? [Re: OlderMan]
Firefly Offline
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Im with OM and GG on this one-- 10 to 15 minutes of penetration is good.

I think for many women, much longer then that can be uncomfortable and unsatisfying. When paying attention to the clock, you can realize that 10 minutes is a pretty long time for penetration and thrusting! I don't think me and my hubby have made it to 10 minutes of thrusting very often even and when we do- its usually because he may be having an issue.

Now when it comes to foreplay and playing around in-between penetration-- that can go on for awhile! wink

lilmiss and pinkflames are way beyond me! wink I don't think me and hubby have ever spent an entire 3 hours on sex either. lol. Now we have done body massages and such that lead into sex and foreplay. Those times do last a long time, but I don't think we've ever made it to 3 hrs before. Hats off to you on that one pinkflames! wink

I don't orgasm with pentrative sex-- maybe thats why I'm in the 10 to 15 minute range. And I have to say- that in that time period, I really do need to have the pace varied. If some man is just pounding away for 10 minutes- after a bit, it goes either numb or sore. THen a person can get to the point where their thinking "just finish it already"! I start to feel like a masturbatory doll more then a partner.

For me also- it may depend on how turned on I am. The more sexed up- the longer I can go. The problem with that is-- the more I'm into it, the quicker my hubby goes= then I'm left wanting more.





Edited by Firefly (12/01/11 11:22 AM)
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