It is not a domination thing for me. Is a gesture thing. I have never asked for it, but the ones that have done it, I know have done it to either: A) Just because they do it and like it and have done it always in the past, B)Try to impress me and make me think they are good in bed, C) Show me they care for me and will go the extra mile to please me.
Except for the girls that gave me the answer A, I find it uncommon. Only 4 partners have done it and it has happened more often in my 30's. My girlfriend loves to swallow me (she actually used the word love) and she had a conversation about it with me. I asked her how common it was for her (My OCD again), she said she had only swallowed some partners and did it because of letter B, but with me she is doing it because of letter C.
She claims she regrets having done it with the other partners because she really did it for the wrong reasons and know feels disgusted about it. Ever since she got with me, she actually respects herself more and sees the sexual act as something more than sex. She sees it as an expression of intimacy and that includes the swallowing act. She says she loves to have part of me inside of her. She feels if we ever breakup, she would only do that with her future husband.
That's why I created the topic. To know woman's take on it.