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#32431 - 06/11/11 09:16 AM a friend with micro-dick
Remington Offline
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Hey,

In my group of friends there is the guy that I eventually found out has micro-dick.

He has slept with a couple of the girls I am friends with (he is always single) and they said it was record small and didn't want to even see him again.

The strange thing is that this guy doesn't seem to accept he is small and thinks he satisfies the girls he sleeps with.

And also, as he doesn't accept his minute size, he doesn't do anything to compensate for it.

If I had a small nob, I would make up for it with oral, fingers or anything to satisfy the girl. I'd also do whatever it took to get a bigger tool.

However, this guy is permanently single due to the fact he doesn't acknowledge his micro-bellend and as a result, he is really getting to be annoying.

I guess being constantly alone when most of your friends find relationships with relative ease and get loads more sex must get to you and make you bitter after a few years.

Well this guy is getting to be seriously irritating, jealous and bitches about people. This is all because he can't get regular action due to his small member!

What do I do about him? He is really annoying, always hanging around my friends and I'm sure he'd be much better if he found someone. If only he realised he has a small dick then he might actually do something about it!

Any ideas guys? It's a long shot I know, but anyway.

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#32437 - 06/11/11 11:49 AM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Remington]
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I say leave him be himself. You want him to hide in a closet, sucking his thumb and drowning in self-pity?
Would you feel better if he wore a sign "Warning, Micro Dick" or "I am not worthy"?
You could mention this sight to him, telling him how much you enjoy it.
Maybe, he always knows his status and the way he is, is the way he is dealing with it.
Growing up in my circle of friends, some seemed to always be getting a different girl every week, others would stick to one, while some were never seen with a girl. Turns out, like most, some got married and stayed married, most got married and divorced, some did it a few times. The very best looking guy of the group who always had a very hot chick on his arm, currently is the owner of the most popular gay club in Philadelphia and has an equally execellant looking husband. Go figure.
Dude, we all have our own course to follow, and no, none of us know where that will lead us.
I do believe that friends don't put friends down. Friends support Friends, regardless of any "short comings." That's why they are Friends.
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#32440 - 06/11/11 12:29 PM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: JimInPhila]
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I agree with JiminPhila, we can't force our ideals, and attitudes on others. Let this guy be himself is the best thing. It's good for him that he doesn't see himself as small or inadequate.

As far as him doing something about it, well, what can he do? There is nothing that can be done about penis size. We are the size we are, and that's that. Accept it as is would be best, and it seems he's done that...


Edited by RiverHead (06/11/11 12:30 PM)

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#32442 - 06/11/11 03:31 PM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: RiverHead]
yesman Offline
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First we must all remember, that out there is his match women wise, and they will have a great life together and the sex will be great?

Second, and from what I can see, its his ego that is greater than his dick, then that accounts for most of us, yes?

Third, Remington perhaps a freind in his group you should perhaps point him in the right direction, this site, and that on the grape vine that he is not quite the man he thinks he is, when it comes to his manhood and some gossip going round about satisfying women, but this is a discreet matter within your group, but somebody needs to step up to the plate and discreetly point him in the right direction and perhaps a women.

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#32447 - 06/11/11 10:12 PM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: yesman]
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Hmmm... It sounds to me like it might be more then his penis size that drives the women away. At least from what you said.

Even a man who has a big dick had better damn well learn some oral and manual skills if he really wants to please women. Any man who thinks he is satisfying women just because hes large is as clueless as this man.

If hes not willing to learn satisfying techniques, and if hes jealous bitter and angry-- he won't attract women to him at all, regardless of his size. There are women out there who will tell you about the amazing sex they had with men who had micro-penises.

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#32451 - 06/12/11 09:08 AM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Firefly]
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Is he really that thick skinned that he cannot see a pattern? Seems that he is certainly confident enough to get women in to bed, so it's what he's doing (or not doing) afterwards. Perhaps you should speak to him, make some suggestions, or better still, point him at this forum smile

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#32452 - 06/12/11 09:43 AM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Remington]
Bane2 Offline
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Originally Posted By: Remington
Hey,

In my group of friends there is the guy that I eventually found out has micro-dick.

He has slept with a couple of the girls I am friends with (he is always single) and they said it was record small and didn't want to even see him again.


How do you feel about these girls running your friend down behind his back? If he was a mate of mine I'd tell them to stop being two-faced bitches.

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The strange thing is that this guy doesn't seem to accept he is small and thinks he satisfies the girls he sleeps with.


I'm pretty sure he knows he's small. But why does he have to accept anything? Maybe he just wants to enjoy life.

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And also, as he doesn't accept his minute size, he doesn't do anything to compensate for it.


And why is this any of your business? If he wants to be a selfish lover then let him be a selfish lover.

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If I had a small nob, I would make up for it with oral, fingers or anything to satisfy the girl. I'd also do whatever it took to get a bigger tool.


But that's you not him. Maybe he doesn't like giving oral sex. Why should he be forced into something he doesn't want to do? If a woman said she didn't want to give a BJ would any decent guy force her to do it?

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However, this guy is permanently single due to the fact he doesn't acknowledge his micro-bellend and as a result, he is really getting to be annoying.

I guess being constantly alone when most of your friends find relationships with relative ease and get loads more sex must get to you and make you bitter after a few years.

Well this guy is getting to be seriously irritating, jealous and bitches about people. This is all because he can't get regular action due to his small member!

What do I do about him? He is really annoying, always hanging around my friends and I'm sure he'd be much better if he found someone. If only he realised he has a small dick then he might actually do something about it!

Any ideas guys? It's a long shot I know, but anyway.


I think your friend should be giving a lot of credit for getting out there and getting with girls. Maybe he bitches about people because he suspects they bitch about him.

I disagree he should come anywhere near a site like this. If he's happy and secure about his penis size then why send him here? For every ten positive posts he only need to read one negative and it could fuck his mindset right up.




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#32455 - 06/12/11 11:45 AM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Bane2]
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Agreed.
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#32457 - 06/12/11 03:38 PM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: OlderMan]
Remington Offline
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Thanks a load for your answers all of you.

An interesting point is that yes, his small dick probably is not the only reason that he's single. Come to think of it, there have been girls interested in him even after sleeping with him, but he wasn't interested in them.

And also, some people do find the guy annoying just in general; he's one of those people. But only some.

And really Bane2, girls haven't so much gossiped about him..the word just kind of got out in an unintentional, non-malicious way.

You are right about a few things, and it's nothing to do with me in a way, but I really just want to see the guy get a girl that stays with him and that he's happy with because I know he'll be better. Right now, I am getting to the point where I can hardly put up with the guy anymore, so I guess it's a way of trying to save the friendship indirectly.

So my interest is really his interest.

I totally agree, you should stick by your friends and take their shortcomings, however "short" they may be ;-)

And new2day thanks for your suggestions, the guy is really not easy to talk to. He gets ultra sensitive and takes stuff really personally.

But I guess I'd better give it a shot and tell him that he's simply not going about things in the right way in general, without mentioning micro-dick issues.

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#32466 - 06/13/11 11:54 AM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Remington]
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It does seem to be a personality issue more then a size issue to me. I'm not saying that extremes in size either way can't create challenges- I know they can. But many times, they aren't the sole reason a relationship doesn't work.

I find it telling that there were women still interesting in after sex, but he wasn't interested in them.

Some people are just annoying no matter what! lol.

And why is it if women talk about a mans small penis its gossip? But if they brag up a mans large penis-- its positive reinforcement and advertising?! Hmmm.....

Me and my friends have just never spent a whole hell of a lot of time talking about mens sizes. We're more likely to talk about their skills or how they made us feel.
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#32469 - 06/13/11 04:57 PM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Firefly]
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Of course it is gossip if a woman talks about how big her man's cock is.

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#32478 - 06/14/11 07:54 AM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Firefly]
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They're both forms of gossip. But no man with a small penis want's eveyone talking about it.

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#32480 - 06/14/11 12:46 PM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Bane2]
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Sure--- but its more likely to be labeled as 'gossip' if hes smaller.

Did you know that its been shown that men gossip just as much as women do and sometimes more?! lol. Its always seen as a woman thing, but that really isn't the case.
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#32482 - 06/14/11 02:28 PM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Firefly]
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I know men gossip just as much. I tend to stay away from people who talk about others behind their back constantly. I don't trust those type of people.

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#32488 - 06/15/11 04:18 AM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Bane2]
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I disagree with the proposition that men gossip about sexual matters. In my experience men tend to be quite repressed about such things - whether it be their own issue or someone else's. Actually, men tend not to talk full-stop! Which is a shame.

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#32490 - 06/15/11 07:20 AM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: George]
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It varies, some men don't talk about sexual matters at all. I'm one of those men. I don't feel the need to brag about such silly things.

I know of other men who constantly brag about sex. How a woman's pussy tastes like, what they do to her, how she gives a good BJ etc...

Fair play to them, but I find talking about sex rather boring. Just do it and shut up about it.


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#32492 - 06/15/11 08:14 AM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Bane2]
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Some men do and some men don't. I am not much of a gossip and usually keep my mouth shut, mostly out of concern that it will get back to the woman and she will be offended even if what I said was very positive.

But I must admit I have shared a few intimate details with male friends that I knew well who I knew would not be made uncomfortable by the topic, and who I thought would likely be discreet. And there were a few times I compared notes with a guy that I knew had had sex with the same woman in the past but usually only well after she was a part of my life.

There were also times a woman compared notes with me when they had had sex with a guy that they knew I knew.

But in general, I agree that most men, like most women, don't prattle on about intimate details of their sex lives to the extent that TV or movies might suggest.

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#32510 - 06/18/11 02:43 PM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: myrealname]
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When I mentioned that men gossip as much as women do-- I just meant it in the general sense of gossiping. My hubby gossips with his buddies WAY more then I do with my friends. I swear.. sometimes I think he should have married his best friend. lol

Speaking of which-- his best friend is very open about sexual topics. For him, being in a relationship has to absolutely include the option of threesomes. His wife of many years was fine with that (she passed away now..) and his new girlfriend seems to be as well.

As it is-- don't think that all women talk in minute detail about their sex lives. In fact, I don't think its as common as men think it is. Though if you do something horribly wrong-- you are more likely to be talked about IMO. lol. In sexual matters, we are more likely to talk about the man himself. How he makes us feel (in general) the nice things hes done for us and yes, some about sex. But in most cases- I think its more of a "wink, wink, nudge, nudge" kind of way.

If we do share with friends anything very intimate-- its more likely to be with a very close friend then with large groups of women. (I think someone mentioned that somewhere else!)

I don't think its necessarily a gender issue- but more of an individual issue.
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#32612 - 06/28/11 03:48 AM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Firefly]
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I have to say Firefly has a apoint.

This guy I have to say does sound a bit like he has problems with his personality, which is stopping potential women suitors from being with him, despite his minute member.

But what is fascinating is why?

What I want to know is: does this guy have:

- a problem with his personality because he is lonely from having a small one (it could develop over time)

- a problem with his personality because he won't accept with and hence adapt to reality

Or is this guy just annoying and bitchy full stop, small or not??

That's what you have to deal with here. I am tending to think that he is annoying and he has a problem with his head. His small nob situation just makes it worse, but it's NOT what caused it.

That's my take on the situation fellas.
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#32638 - 06/30/11 12:15 PM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Frank Envy]
Remington Offline
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I just wanted to add that the girls who "leaked" info about this guy's small dick did so because he ignored them, or thought he was too good.

That kind of doubly annoyed them, because they weren't so into him anyway, and then he dumped them.

Seriously, it's so easy to find free and easy info to make your bellend bigger these days, I have no idea why he would not do it.

Oh yes I do - because he doesn't accept he has any penile problems.

Surely this is a personality problem? He thinks he's way cooler than he is.

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#34348 - 09/09/11 06:53 PM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Remington]
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Remington, what makes you think a small dick is a problem with satisfying a women? I have seen numerous sites saying that size doesnt matter. My wife is completly satisfied by my 4" penis and certainly wouldnt want any more.
It;s what you do with it that counts !

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#36945 - 06/25/12 10:35 AM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Remington]
Remington Offline
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Hi tiddler28, it's not me that judges his small dick, it's the girls he has slept with.

Furthermore, his is most likely smaller and thinner than yours. Remember, a micropenis is 2-3 inches long at the most.

I have an update on this situation that will probably interest people reading this.

I no longer see this friend. I didn't want to spend time around him anymore. I'm convinced that had he had a regular girlfriend, he would have become more friendly and less negative.

As it happened, he's now an immature, bitchy individual who attracts similar types.

But that's not important. What matters is that this is clearly due to the fact that he chooses not to "accept" he has a lack.

He's not humble enough to accept that he has to compensate for his small member.

We all have our faults: someone may lack a decent career path, someone else may have a speech impediment, someone else may be bald...but all of these, including a small penis size, can be compensated for.

So as somebody already said, this guy is indeed far too thick-skinned and arrogant.

And this is the real reason he is incapable of forming at relationship, and always has been, at nearly 40 years old.

So for any man out there with a small or even micropenis, I would say judging from this situation that there are definitely ways to make up for it. You just have to recognise that you'll need to do so and be humble and positive about it.

Just accept and compensate for your defects, and above all don't be like this guy :-)

PS. I bet you're all glad a guy like this doesn't have a big one


Edited by Remington (06/25/12 10:47 AM)

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#37141 - 09/07/12 05:41 PM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Remington]
tiddler28 Offline
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Strangely my wife agrees with your comments, however...
What do you mean be humble about our shortcomings?
Why should we have to compensate?
Size is irrelevant, reading your post it reads as if it is important, as i said earlier a small penis will give as much pleasure as a large one so what is there to compensate for?

Tiddler

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#174547 - 04/18/14 03:27 PM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Firefly]
RaceCarrington Offline
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Registered: 04/18/14
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Loc: Canada
I think if women talk about a big penis or small penis it's all gossip,and the talk about a small penis is negative and the talk about a big penis as positive. This is just what I've noticed.

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#177738 - 08/27/15 02:23 PM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Remington]
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I almost have a micro. The best advice you can give him is that if he concentrates on his foreplay, he can do very good. I did. You can change his life if he gets a "Black Belt"
My wife noticed the results right away. He has to watch videos of lesbians, read men's articles that explain to you things that you would never know. Did you ever know why girls like to kiss a lot before sex? Because there are a ton of stimulating nerves on the top lip only that get them aroused. There are other places with high concentrations of nerves. The inner thighs are incredibly important.
But two thing happen that combine to help both partners out. The girl starts thinking that the guy keeps touching the right spots. Then she starts thinking that this guy knows what he is doing and its good, Thats a game changer,
Meanwhile your micro friend get's new self-confidence because ,like a surgeon, he knows the girls anatomy and how to touch it.I use to be a moderator here. I just found my old user name. It was Penis B Little. I posted tones of stuff for guys like me.
Finally talk walks, My ex was a model divorced in 1987. Married my wife 1989 and she has been called a 10 by guys. Today she is 52 and she still looks good. Communications love and understanding made our marriage work. In bed my work, her flexibility kept us happy, She was allowed to use a toy if needed. But now that I am 59 with certain illnesses , if the marriage was built on sex as the main foundation, she could leave me in a minute. But she takes care of my MS like disease in my legs. And if I start feeling a bit insecure,normal for a guy in my position, I simply track her cellphone on Google.Which I rarely do because she is always where she is supposed to be.
Please encourage your friend with all I have learned,

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#177770 - 10/10/15 08:56 PM Re: a friend with micro-dick [Re: Remington]
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Don't track her. That's creepy. Trust her instead.
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