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#21485 - 05/25/10 05:36 AM How did your first big penis feel?
cumbriankid Offline
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Women,
If I may ask....How was your first experience of a big penis. Was there a difference? How does small, medium and large differ in both the physical and mental?


Thanks.

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#21494 - 05/25/10 03:49 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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As long as a penis is within a "normal" range -- not enormous, not tiny -- I scarcely notice a difference once it's inside me.

As the women on this site (including me) have pointed out many times, the way I feel about a man is many times more important to me and to my sexual enjoyment with him. I'm a middle-aged woman who has been around the block a few times. I know what I like and I don't do one-night stands. If a man turns me on outside the bedroom, then I know from experience he's most likely going to turn me on in the bedroom as well.

Just like you get a sense about a woman, I get a sense about a man and what kind of person he is. Lots of things can turn me on about a man. Probably the biggest thing to me is the way he treats people. "Bad boys" and men who are egotistical jerks turn me off completely, and will never get into my panties. On the other hand, sweetness and kindness can get me going bigtime. A man who treats people right and who is good and decent is my kind of man.

I usually know long before he does if I'm going to bed with him or not, and at that point, believe me, I'm not thinking about non-essential things like the size of his penis.

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#21523 - 05/26/10 08:17 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: CaroleTucson]
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My first "big penis" was on a small guy so it looked silly (cartoonish).

As Carole said, once it was inside, I couldn't really say I felt a lot of difference but then again, he couldn't last long so who knows?

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#31674 - 03/14/11 06:42 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: pinkFlames]
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At the risk of digging up an old thread (but the boards are slow at the moment) anyone got anything to add to this?

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#31678 - 03/14/11 10:44 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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You know.. I noticed more in passing the size of a mans penis, but other then that, I just didn't differentiate much at all.

I suppose if there had been extremes on either end (big and small) I would have taken more notice of it.

If he couldn't impress me with how he kissed or touched-- the penis size was really a moot point for me.
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#31680 - 03/15/11 11:41 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: Firefly]
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Firefly,

What do you mean when you say you noticed "more in passing"?

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#31681 - 03/15/11 12:28 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: gibsonl4]
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I meant that while it briefly registered in my brain-- it just wasn't something I dwelled on or was a big deal.

I was more focused on the moment and on how I felt about the man or how he kissed, or touched, or how he excited me just because of who he was.

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#31682 - 03/15/11 04:54 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: gibsonl4]
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I was just about to ask that. I thought I was having a dense moment!!

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#31687 - 03/16/11 11:33 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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I thought most people knew what "noticed in passing" meant. lol.
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#32515 - 06/18/11 10:53 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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well again, it hurt, but felt good. And I had that, "filled up", feeling., -But when I decide to have a child, I'm sure I'll forget all about that, lol.


Edited by cathy22 (06/18/11 11:06 PM)

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#35687 - 01/10/12 04:46 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cathy22]
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Just thought I'd put in my two cents, because my first experience with "a larger than I'm used to" penis wasn't a success...
I didn't get to see it, it was a one-night affair with a friend of a girlfriend, and I wasn't particularly attracted to him, which is always a bad start. I did for bad reasons, feeling lonely, meaning to "thank" him for lending Clara and I his flat to study and, giving in to his "enthusiasm"...
I remember I felt surprised and intimidated by how it felt in my hand, soooo different...and then inside me it really shocked me a little, and hurt a little too. But I think what my body was saying, was that it didn't want any of what was happening in that bed. So had I been into him, it might have worked better;)!

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#35702 - 01/12/12 05:48 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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My experience is that girls just want Mr Average.

Several have commented that when confronted with a big one it makes them worry that it could be uncomfortable, which makes them tense and so it is.

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#35713 - 01/13/12 02:13 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: McAndrew]
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Originally Posted By: McAndrew
My experience is that girls just want Mr Average.


Or to put it another way ... we just want "Mr Right For Me".

I've never been with a man with a huge penis. I don't feel like I'm missing anything. Oh, I suppose there would be some curiosity factor involved, but it's not something I've ever really thought about much. I'd be curious about other things too ... things like his tongue or his fingers. Or what kinky things he might be interested in. Stuff like that.
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#35728 - 01/15/12 02:23 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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I think a womans enjoyment can be very much influenced by how we feel about a man. It doesn't matter if he has all the right moves- or what size his penis is or anything else.. if we don't feel positive about him in some way.

Now I'm not saying for me that I have to be in love with or even want a serious relationship with a man to enjoy sex with him. But I do have to have positive feelings and attraction to him. Respect is a huge issue for me. Respect for him and respect for myself. I think thats even more important for me now then it was when I was younger.


For me at least-- penis size has never been a deciding factor about whether or not I will have sex with a man. In fact- I usually didn't know a mans size before I decided. lol

I don't think its unusual for women to be curious about it like GG mentions- but it really isn't the be-all for most women.
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#35734 - 01/15/12 05:47 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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I think it would be difficult for a woman to say, "Okay, now I'm with my first big penis." Unless it was remarkably bigger than she'd experienced, it's not like a 7-incher will feel "big" while a 6-incher won't. Penis size is a spectrum with no defined boundaries between small, average, and big.
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#35743 - 01/16/12 12:26 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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You hit it right on OM. Unless theres a huge difference- I don't think its very noticable.

I also think that size is in the eye of the beholder at times. What one woman may find very large, another may think is average.

And i still very much believe that women grossly overestimate mens sizes all the time.
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#35753 - 01/17/12 03:06 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: OlderMan]
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Originally Posted By: OlderMan
I think it would be difficult for a woman to say, "Okay, now I'm with my first big penis." Unless it was remarkably bigger than she'd experienced, it's not like a 7-incher will feel "big" while a 6-incher won't. Penis size is a spectrum with no defined boundaries between small, average, and big.


well you may not notice the difference in terms of length but what about girth/thickness?

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#35755 - 01/17/12 07:43 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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From my point of view how big a man feels, can change from one occasion to the next. My vaginal sensitivy can be affected by my menstrual cycle (My vagina's more touchy during my period), how aroused I am or the position we're in - even a slight adjustment in angle will affect how things feel.

His penis also changes from one occasion to the next. I find it seems longest when he's on his back and absolute shortest when he's on his side, with missionary being somewhere in between. The fullness of his penis also varies from one moment to the next, depending mostly on his arousal but I wouldn't be surprised if other things affect that too.

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#35775 - 01/19/12 05:23 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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Thats a good point pinkflames. My sensitivity is ever-changing throughout the month as well. How feel feels oftentimes is directly related to where I'm at.
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#35784 - 01/20/12 06:01 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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I agree with a lot of the posts- pinkFlames really nailed some of the things I've noticed about my own body. My husbands penis feels and even looks larger when I've teased the heck out of him for a few hours (sometimes even a few days). I like it no matter what, but it is something I've noticed that I think is well... neat.

Honestly I can say the one time I was with someone with a larger to me penis (in both length and girth) it hurt more than being pleasurable. I think it was because it felt like he was trying to reach my lungs via my vagina, no matter how slow or gentle he was.

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#35789 - 01/20/12 11:49 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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since i have an average sized one i haven't commented on this but we're having some good thoughts. here's my .02.
my OL has said mine is bigger than i think it is, and i have noticed she gets me larger than i do (don't need too much detail do we) or that just pops up.
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#35814 - 01/20/12 09:06 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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Life's pretty great, isn't it Biker?

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#35843 - 01/23/12 03:27 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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i have very few things to complain about OM, life is good!
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#35848 - 01/23/12 04:09 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: biker_061]
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Biker,
I never thought they did things like that in Oklahoma. shocked
Go figure!

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#35855 - 01/24/12 06:34 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: pinkFlames]
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Originally Posted By: pinkFlames
The fullness of his penis also varies from one moment to the next, depending mostly on his arousal but I wouldn't be surprised if other things affect that too.


Yes, and if he uses a "magic pill", that's one of the other things that affects the fullness. I've been learning this recently. And by the way, those pills rank right up there with the wheel and fire as far as greatest inventions of all time go smile
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#35856 - 01/24/12 09:45 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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Biker is right, I find that my penis is alot bigger when the wife is in something sexy and I'm on my back and she want's to climb aboard! Seeing her down there working me over is the biggest turn on, especially if I didn't expect it coming ! The cock in the shower is so-so, and the pics I posted, well let's just say it's alittle hard to juggle a camera and preform at 47 ! Haven't tried the pill yet, I heard it gives some guys a little hang-over the next day.

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#35858 - 01/24/12 02:05 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: JimInPhila]
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Originally Posted By: JimInPhila
Biker,
I never thought they did things like that in Oklahoma. shocked
Go figure!


don't let our rural middle of no where-ness fool you banghead , we do lots and lots of things out here on the plain hmmmm . shoot we've even got that interweb thingy now, too! brew
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#35859 - 01/24/12 09:42 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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funny Ahh, sending information through the tubes on the interweb.
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#35866 - 01/26/12 04:38 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: biker_061]
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"here on the plain. shoot we've even got that interweb thingy now, too!"

Dang, Pardner, Interweb? with electrick wyears?
Go figuare.

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#37164 - 09/16/12 10:07 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: granny__granola]
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i have a 10 inch penis and i can attest that it is too big for most women. Depends obviously on her arousal level and size of vagina

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#37455 - 11/23/12 12:19 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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It was the thickness that made my first large one a memory, not the length of 6"+ (did not measure him). Would I enjoy something over 9" without a few days of getting warmed up to the size? I doubt it unless the owner was considerate of what his cock was hitting. 'Normal' is the makeup of our small circle of partners when it comes to cock size.

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#37460 - 11/24/12 11:39 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: Maryes]
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Is it a fond memory?? Do you miss it (rather than him) especially when comparing it to "normal"? It sounds like your friends discuss size - interesting as most women suggest its never/rarely talked about??

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#37467 - 11/28/12 09:34 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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Originally Posted By: cumbriankid
It sounds like your friends discuss size - interesting as most women suggest its never/rarely talked about??


Although you haven't (yet) had an answer from Maryes I will put my bit in on this re-occurring subject.

Despite the suggestion, from the ladies of this forum, I think some women do discuss such things.
This probably/possibly happens when a close group of female friends, who discuss many aspects of their lives, get together for a 'girls night' and the 'wine flows freely'. Somehow the topic will turn to sex and their enjoyment, or otherwise, of it and this will lead to comparisons of experiences. The least inhibited of the group will bring up size and its importance, or otherwise, which will probably lead to (possibly due to peer pressure) the others joining in and expressing their opinions and giving reasons for this. This might eventually lead to admissions about the biggest and smallest experienced and what the difference, if any, it made.
It is also possible under such circumstances that the least and the most 'satisfied' in the group will express their reasons for their 'satisfaction', or not. This can lead to comparisons of partners 'equipment' and 'performance', 'satisfactory', or otherwise.

I said "I think" - I actually know this can happen because I found out that this had happened with my (ex)wife and a group of her friends and I don't think they were any different from most groups of women on a 'girls night out'.
How I found out is a different story.

JipTu

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#37472 - 11/28/12 01:11 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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#37476 - 11/29/12 07:54 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: granny__granola]
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Originally Posted By: granny__granola
grin


Could you please elucidate further on - grin

Is it a comment (admission) on my post above yours?

Is it a memory of how your first big penis felt?

Curios, in more ways than one crazy

JipTu

p.s do find it interesting that cumbriankid asks about the 'first big penis' (what is big), which implies that there were subsequent others - you can't have a first if others don't follow - as they are supposedly 'rare'.

Perhaps a more enlightening question would be "What did the biggest penis you've had feel like"?


Edited by JipTu (11/29/12 08:10 AM)

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#37477 - 11/29/12 09:10 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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To answer my own 'sub question' - What did the biggest penis you've had feel like?

I've only had one big penis and I know it is the biggest I'll ever have.
It felt very good and enjoyable, both the length and the girth.
I found it visually very pleasing, although the first time I saw it I found it rather frightening, as I'd never seen anything like it before.
After having it a few times I admit that I did discuss it with friends and they had felt the same when they had their first 'big one'.
The hardness, at times, could be almost painful but well worth it for the results this caused.
Some of the sensations it could give me were out of this world.
The first orgasm it gave me happened very quickly and was so intense I didn't know what was happening but after that I wanted as many as I could get.
As my relationship with 'it' progressed it took longer for me to reach orgasm but when I did they were still fantastic.

Luckily I've still got it laugh

JipTu

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#37478 - 11/29/12 01:10 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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Jiptu, I was chuckling about your thoughts on women discussing penises. In my experience, that's unusual. I have had plenty of discussions with my women friends about men ... hell, I've probably had millions of discussions about men ... but the subject of their penis has only come up a handful of times. Someone might mention that a certain man is a good lover or something like that, but anatomic specifics? Nahhh ...

Regarding my own experiences with "big" penises ... I've never been with a man that I would consider abnormally large, so I guess I don't have much to contribute to the question. For that matter, I've never been with a man who I considered abnormally small, either. With that in mind, and not to sound crude, but once they're inside me, I can scarcely tell the difference.

To me, my late husband's penis was perfect. It was beautiful ... the skin color, the veins, the shape and curve. I loved playing with it, stroking it, sucking it, and of course I loved fucking it. Those esthetic qualities are just as important to me as size, if not more important.

The level of physical pleasure I get from sex depends on a number of things, the most important being how I feel about the man. I'm not sure why that is, because it implies that sexual gratification is mostly in my mind. Aside from that, my pleasure also depends a lot on the "extras". Does he do oral sex on me? Does he touch me and do lots of foreplay?

Notice that none of those things has anything to do with the size of his penis. I would say that as long as he's within some sort of "normal" range in size, it's going to work just fine. But if doesn't do the other things that make a man a good lover, then his penis doesn't mean diddly.
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#37482 - 11/29/12 05:32 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: granny__granola]
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Originally Posted By: granny__granola
Jiptu, I was chuckling about your thoughts on women discussing penises. In my experience, that's unusual. I have had plenty of discussions with my women friends about men ... hell, I've probably had millions of discussions about men ... but the subject of their penis has only come up a handful of times. Someone might mention that a certain man is a good lover or something like that, but anatomic specifics? Nahhh ...




I totally agree. The closest I've ever really come to discussing penis size was in junior high I think.... and it was only to giggle and wonder about it as all of us were virgins and had never even seen an erect penis before. The only other time was when a crass, annoying woman who no one liked mentioned how she married her hubby because he had a big dick. I just told her she probably could have gotten that without marrying him. (they had a very rocky marriage- both of them cheating mulitple times on each other)

Never once have I EVER discussed a mans size with close friends and never even once has a close friend told me about the size of a man shes been with. Its just not something thats discussed all much about by women. Don't always believe what you see on tv!! haha Sure, we've talked about men, but believe me, a man remembering to do something for you, or a man who does something unexpected and sweet, or on the flip side, a man who totally blows you off or doesn't listen to you.... those are discussed in much more detail!

My friends are more likely to hear about how my hubby picked lilacs for me, brought them home and put them in a vase in water for me because he knew I liked them (when he was out target shooting with his friends no less). Or how he was at his friends house really late and worried me and pissed me off because he didn't respond to my text asking him if he was ok. (happened recently...lol)

So yeah-- Maybe I just run in different circles then other women, but me and my friends just don't talk that specific about the penises we have known and loved.


Edited by Firefly (11/29/12 05:34 PM)
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#37484 - 11/29/12 06:15 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: JipTu]
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p.s do find it interesting that cumbriankid asks about the 'first big penis' (what is big), which implies that there were subsequent others - you can't have a first if others don't follow - as they are supposedly 'rare'.

Isn't this just splitting hairs???

Perhaps a more enlightening question would be "What did the biggest penis you've had feel like"? [/quote]

The 'biggest' a woman has ever had could be three inches and pencil thin!! So I think 'big' needs to be used!! I think if a woman had only experienced one then she would limit her self to that!! You could play with the question all day - ultimately this is a sex forum and people can and do freely expand answers beyond the boundary of the question!!! The li icing factor on any forum is volume of replies - not content!!

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#37485 - 11/29/12 06:19 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: JipTu]
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I said "I think" - I actually know this can happen because I found out that this had happened with my (ex)wife and a group of her friends and I don't think they were any different from most groups of women on a 'girls night out'.
How I found out is a different story.

JipTu [/quote]

Can we hear the story??

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#37486 - 11/29/12 06:24 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: Firefly]
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Originally Posted By: Firefly
Originally Posted By: granny__granola
Jiptu, I was chuckling about your thoughts on women discussing penises. In my experience, that's unusual. I have had plenty of discussions with my women friends about men ... hell, I've probably had millions of discussions about men ... but the subject of their penis has only come up a handful of times. Someone might mention that a certain man is a good lover or something like that, but anatomic specifics? Nahhh ...


I have heard three female conversations about size (re - told to me)! One being about a girl having an affair with her married boss BUT he couldn't get hard!! The second was two girls comparing an XXL experience and the third (very recent) was a girl who hadn't had sex for three years and then dates a nice guy...all is going well...they go back to hers and start to play and she discovers he is small (no detail given) and she drops him on the basis that if she has waited three years for a guy then he must be perfect!!!


I totally agree. The closest I've ever really come to discussing penis size was in junior high I think.... and it was only to giggle and wonder about it as all of us were virgins and had never even seen an erect penis before. The only other time was when a crass, annoying woman who no one liked mentioned how she married her hubby because he had a big dick. I just told her she probably could have gotten that without marrying him. (they had a very rocky marriage- both of them cheating mulitple times on each other)

Never once have I EVER discussed a mans size with close friends and never even once has a close friend told me about the size of a man shes been with. Its just not something thats discussed all much about by women. Don't always believe what you see on tv!! haha Sure, we've talked about men, but believe me, a man remembering to do something for you, or a man who does something unexpected and sweet, or on the flip side, a man who totally blows you off or doesn't listen to you.... those are discussed in much more detail!

My friends are more likely to hear about how my hubby picked lilacs for me, brought them home and put them in a vase in water for me because he knew I liked them (when he was out target shooting with his friends no less). Or how he was at his friends house really late and worried me and pissed me off because he didn't respond to my text asking him if he was ok. (happened recently...lol)

So yeah-- Maybe I just run in different circles then other women, but me and my friends just don't talk that specific about the penises we have known and loved.

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#37489 - 11/30/12 09:06 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: granny__granola]
JipTu Offline
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Loc: Yorks UK
Originally Posted By: granny__granola
Jiptu, I was chuckling about your thoughts on women discussing penises. In my experience, that's unusual. I have had plenty of discussions with my women friends about men ... hell, I've probably had millions of discussions about men ... but the subject of their penis has only come up a handful of times. Someone might mention that a certain man is a good lover or something like that, but anatomic specifics? Nahhh ...

A 'handful of times' is enough, even once is enough, if somebody in that group then goes on to repeat the discussion outside the group. In an organisation, or a small community, it is surprising how quickly the 'news' can spread. I cannot, with all respect, help but wonder just what it would have taken for the subject of size to have come up? Maybe if one respected member of the group had brought it up, others might have followed.

Regarding my own experiences with "big" penises ... I've never been with a man that I would consider abnormally large, so I guess I don't have much to contribute to the question. For that matter, I've never been with a man who I considered abnormally small, either. With that in mind, and not to sound crude, but once they're inside me, I can scarcely tell the difference.

Again with the greatest respect, that could be due to the limits of your experience.
But on the subject of "once they're inside me" I once had a 'friend' tell me that "Although its important whose 'it' is at the beginning, once 'it's' bringing me off I'm not even aware of whose it is"


To me, my late husband's penis was perfect. It was beautiful ... the skin color, the veins, the shape and curve. I loved playing with it, stroking it, sucking it, and of course I loved fucking it. Those esthetic qualities are just as important to me as size, if not more important.

That whole statement was beautiful, for the sentiments and memories it must have brought up whilst you wrote it.

The level of physical pleasure I get from sex depends on a number of things, the most important being how I feel about the man. I'm not sure why that is, because it implies that sexual gratification is mostly in my mind. Aside from that, my pleasure also depends a lot on the "extras". Does he do oral sex on me? Does he touch me and do lots of foreplay?

That is so true - the greatest sex organ is between the ears not the legs, if you don't 'connected' there it doesn't matter how you 'connect' elsewhere, even the 'extras' won't work.
I think that is true for both men and women - initial arousal starts in the mind well before/without any physical contact, you cannot go straight into sex 'cold'.
I don't know about other men but I could not have 'just' sex with a woman that I did not find attractive initially in so many other ways. I've heard it said that if a man 'wants it' he could/will fuck any woman but I don't understand that. I'm totally baffled by prostitution.


Notice that none of those things has anything to do with the size of his penis. I would say that as long as he's within some sort of "normal" range in size, it's going to work just fine. But if doesn't do the other things that make a man a good lover, then his penis doesn't mean diddly.

Again I fully agree. The size of the penis has nothing to do with being a good lover because as you say there are many other things/aspects involved. In fact a large penis can mean just the opposite of being a good lover, if 'its owner' thinks that's all it needs. From having a look at forums devoted to the 'well endowed' unfortunately it seems that some men do not realise this and do not realise that having a large penis 'carries responsibilities' in order to make him/them good lovers.


Sorry I've done it this way but the Forum somehow seems to have gone crazy when trying to post.

JipTu


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#37492 - 11/30/12 11:47 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
JipTu Offline
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Originally Posted By: cumbriankid


I said "I think" - I actually know this can happen because I found out that this had happened with my (ex)wife and a group of her friends and I don't think they were any different from most groups of women on a 'girls night out'.
How I found out is a different story.

JipTu


Can we hear the story??
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Firstly cumbriankid I didn't mean to split hairs, sorry, years of being trained to . every i and - every t

The story I'm not very keen on telling in detail but, as you say, this is a Forum where members should be able to post (almost) anything.

I will condense it - and before I do will clearly state that no boasting nor implications about anything involving other men's size/performance is intended, it is just what happened.

About 6 months after my (ex) wife and I separated one of the 'girls' (she was 36 & married) from the group who had gone on 'girl's nights out' and had been my (ex) wife's best (?) friend made it very clear that she was more than willing to make up for anything I might be 'missing', with 'no strings attached'.
As I was 'missing it' and I found her very attractive I readily agreed. When the time came for the 'un-veiling' she said "**** wasn't lying, its as big as she said it was, I hope you perform as well as she said".
Over the next 12 months I had 'offers' from four other members of the 'girl's group', which I took-up - with almost identical comments about what my (ex) wife had said.

At possibly the risk of the ire of the female members of the Forum I will add that I found out, eventually, from all of them, that their 'offers' were based on a combination of curiosity, frustration (at their partners 'equipment' and/or performance or complete indifference) and surprisingly, once they had seen 'it', their curiosity about their ability to 'take it', almost as if they saw it as some kind of challenge to their femininity - as the second said, "if **** could take it and enjoy it I should be able to".

When I found out that my wife had discussed such things I was very annoyed but was also I admit egotistically pleased that although she shouldn't have done it that she'd given me a 'glowing report'.
I will also add this bit, which might sound rather strange for a male - I did feel 'used' (it appears that men can be, as well as women) but 'consoled' myself with the thoughts that - I in turn had been 'using' them and at least they had chosen me for they 'usage', which did (rather) reassure my ego which had been battered by my wife's departure.

Something very similar happened a few years later when I was having an affair (still unmarried) with one of the girls (?) from the company I worked for.. A few weeks after it started there were quite a few 'nudge, nudge, wink, winks', from some female members of staff about my size and some rather uncomplimentary comments about her for wanting/taking 'it'.

End of story.

JipTu.

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#37494 - 11/30/12 01:19 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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A good story well told!! Thanks for the contribution!!! It looks like only a handful of die hards are still posting these days!!!

Keep your computer on the first floor pal!! York looks a wee bit damp recently - in fact it was knee deep when I passed through in September so God knows what it's like now!!!!

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#37495 - 11/30/12 01:20 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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How big is the beast by the way???

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#37499 - 12/01/12 11:28 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
JipTu Offline
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Loc: Yorks UK
Originally Posted By: cumbriankid
A good story well told!! Thanks for the contribution!!! It looks like only a handful of die hards are still posting these days!!!

Keep your computer on the first floor pal!! York looks a wee bit damp recently - in fact it was knee deep when I passed through in September so God knows what it's like now!!!!


Thanks cumbriankid I wasn't too sure about posting it because I had some rather adverse comments when I mentioned size in a post earlier in my days here. But as you say who the hell is going to read it these days except a few 'die hards' - who've probably seen 'it' and commented on 'it', in the days when pics were available.

Luckily I am further south than York, Sheffield and luckily this time we've missed flooding but computer is upstairs anyway, too much equipment to have it downstairs.

Haven't worked out how to do multi-quotes so in answer to your query "How big is the 'beast' by the way???"

I have already previously posted this information (and posted pics) and got some rather adverse comments re being 'boastful' (although there were a few favourable ones, from both sexes) - which was in no way my intention - it was just a statement of facts in answer to a query similar to yours.
'It' is nothing to be proud of, or otherwise, it is just what God/Nature, or what-ever gave me.
So at the risk again and with the previously stated intention, here goes.
I have, so I've been told, a rather 'unusual' shape which is rather hard to explain - I gradually increase in circumference/girth from tip to base and have an upward curve, the increasing 'thickness' making the curve at the bottom more than the curve at the top. The easiest example I can give is imagine a banana the way it curves and increases in girth from tip to middle. This makes giving accurate length dimensions difficult because there is a difference due to the top and bottom curve. I know that length is supposed to be measured at the top but as it is possible to go 'balls deep' I have never understood this, because to do this the lower length must 'be in'.
These measurements were not taken by me but were taken as part of a survey carried out (and published) by two consultants, as part of a 'size survey', at the Hallamshire Hospital in Sheffield - their results can be found on the web, search Hallamshire Hospital, Whylie.
Length of top curve is 8.4", length of lower curve to crease of balls is 8.75", girth of head is 5.5", shaft directly behind it is 5.25", mid-shaft is 6", girth of base is 6.5".
Again without being boastful, I have never had any problems with any partners 'taking it' (despite initial doubts/fear when first seen by 'first timers') and enjoying it, provided there has been plenty of foreplay and considerate penetration. The big (no pun intended) advantage being that the girth gradually increasing means that 'what goes before prepares for what is to follow".
As one partner, who was an engineer, female, described it "like a reamer, gradually opening her up".
The length does have to be taken into consideration, particularly with new partners - no deep penetration positions, no trying to go 'straight in' and attention to angle of penetration to avoid cervix 'banging' and ensure 'it' has a chance of going into either of the fornixs - although it is surprising how quickly they adjust to 'it' and want to try/go on to deeper penetration positions.

JipTu

p.s. Good luck with the new job.


Edited by JipTu (12/01/12 11:31 AM)

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#37500 - 12/01/12 05:19 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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I don't remember seeing "it" ... but I'll be sure and look as soon as we can again smile
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#37504 - 12/02/12 06:16 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: granny__granola]
JipTu Offline
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Originally Posted By: granny__granola
I don't remember seeing "it" ... but I'll be sure and look as soon as we can again smile


Oh granny_granola how can you be so fickle and cruel? frown

You have shattered my delicate, tender (and mis-guided) male ego.

I have held the comments you made after seeing 'it', coming from a woman such as you, close to my heart and now you've broken it. cry

Have I wasted all the time I have spent trying to get my visa renewed so I could visit Phoenix?
This has not been easy after I was 'Best Man' at a wedding in Jacksonville, Fl. and was caught trying to prove to one of the girls why I'd got that title. When the policeman turned up and threatened to use his night stick how was I to know he didn't mean he wanted to join in.
I've even worked out how to get a folding ladder on the plane so I could get over your wall if the gate at the side of the garage was locked.
I was even willing, yet again, to put up with the embarrassment of being body searched after the airport scanned showed that I might be carrying a hidden weapon smile

All my dreams are now as dust sick

Despite all this I hope I haven't lost my sense of humo(u)r.

JipTu.


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#37506 - 12/02/12 08:17 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: JipTu]
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Originally Posted By: JipTu
I was even willing, yet again, to put up with the embarrassment of being body searched after the airport scanned showed that I might be carrying a hidden weapon smile


Not to worry. I'm an official "Body Search" volunteer. I'll do it smile
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#37508 - 12/02/12 08:39 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: granny__granola]
JipTu Offline
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Originally Posted By: granny__granola
Originally Posted By: JipTu
I was even willing, yet again, to put up with the embarrassment of being body searched after the airport scanner showed that I might be carrying a hidden weapon smile


Not to worry. I'm an official "Body Search" volunteer. I'll do it smile


If that's a promise I will work even harder to get my visa renewed smile

Who knows, might not need to bring my ladder smirk

Jiptu

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#37512 - 12/03/12 08:25 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
granny__granola Offline
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Oh, I just might forget to lock the gate ... blush
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#37778 - 01/04/13 12:25 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
Sammy Offline
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I hadn't read this particular thread before, but after doing so it gets back to my point and my insecurities. Jip Tu is, without question, bragging about how women are throwing themselves all over him because of his big penis and granny granola after stating at first how size doesn't matter is practically begging to see him to see for herself.

I'm trying to change my attitude and get a new more positive look on my life. But I read stuff like this and it conforms all my fears. Guys with big (or even normal sized) dicks have it made and losers like me are just that...losers

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#37784 - 01/04/13 05:51 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: Sammy]
JipTu Offline
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Loc: Yorks UK
Originally Posted By: Sammy
I hadn't read this particular thread before, but after doing so it gets back to my point and my insecurities. Jip Tu is, without question, bragging about how women are throwing themselves all over him because of his big penis and granny granola after stating at first how size doesn't matter is practically begging to see him to see for herself.

I'm trying to change my attitude and get a new more positive look on my life. But I read stuff like this and it conforms all my fears. Guys with big (or even normal sized) dicks have it made and losers like me are just that...losers


Sammy, my friend, you didn't read carefully enough!

Nobody (me) was bragging, in fact just the opposite.

Not meaning to be cruel, just maybe 'tough love', but your sense of humo(u)r is also apparently rather lacking.

As posted elsewhere you have my greatest wishes that you succeed in your endeavours to overcome your (misguided) attitude regarding your 'endowment' and outlook on life.

The first thing though that you must realise and attend to is your thinking that you are a 'loser' - think that way and you will be because you are 'beaten' before you even start.
Think just one positive thought a day, it doesn't matter what it is, achieve it and then keep building.
You don't run a marathon straight away, you gradually build-up until you have the ability and confidence to 'go the whole way'.


Men with 'normal' (whatever that is) and big (w t i) dicks do not have 'it made' - just like everybody else they have to 'work at it', in their attitude and attention to all things regarding the opposite sex, not just their dicks.
Again, without meaning to be cruel, you have been told these things for as long as you have been a member here.

If it makes you feel any better my 'big' dick was for years as bigger an obstacle to my self-confidence (after being ridiculed at school and 'refused' by girls my own age) as your are experiencing. It was only after I was 'taught' that I had nothing to worry about by a woman that cared for me as a whole person and who therefore didn't care about my size, which came into the relationship as a part of and not the reason for, that I was reassured.

JipTu

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#37790 - 01/04/13 02:15 PM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
Sammy Offline
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Posts: 74
Loc: Chicago
To quote your own words:

" When the time came for the 'un-veiling' she said "**** wasn't lying, its as big as she said it was, I hope you perform as well as she said".

"Over the next 12 months I had 'offers' from four other members of the 'girl's group', which I took-up - with almost identical comments about what my (ex) wife had said."

"When I found out that my wife had discussed such things I was very annoyed but was also I admit egotistically pleased that although she shouldn't have done it that she'd given me a 'glowing report'"

I suppose you're being modest. If that isn't bragging then the definition of the word must have changed recently that I wasn't aware of

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#177730 - 08/27/15 11:00 AM Re: How did your first big penis feel? [Re: cumbriankid]
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I'd just like to say that it seems that the penis gets all the focus of attention when it comes to size, fit, and the women's arousal. I don't like to mix politics and penises but I am learning things from Mr. Trump. I have a real tiny penis. It was small but medication has made it shrink even more. Had I been in the dating market at this stage, I think you can tell from how tight the girl is if she is really feeling anything. So why not go on the offensive. Ask her up front if she seemed like she was lacking stimulation because of size. If she says yes , and it may be subtle, ask her how many elephants has she been dating lately. Well don't say it like that. I can say things like that because God gave me a special way of making people laugh. But tell her that you have met girls with problems like hers. But she can fix it with exercises. Tell her that there is hope for her because she has lost the ability to enjoy average to below average penises. The girl should be held responsible for size incompatibility too. Tell her that it is sad how many women had to break up with men that they loved and thought were special because of the problem she has. Then you can help her regain her self-esteem from a problem that she now believes is her's. In these days of hookup dating, you have to be street smart. I almost feel evil using psychology. But it needs to be done. I have been seeing too many girls blaming their lack of satisfaction because a guy being too small. Einstein would say that P=Vsquared. It's not the penis size that matters. It's both partners responsibility to make the sex good. And a girl that loves and cares will realize that lesbians have no penises and both are totally satisfied. I rest my case

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