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#16411 - 11/15/09 12:08 PM how often do you have sex?
itsjustme Offline
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Our friends joke with us about it, they know by how we touch, look at each other, and the occassional comment that we have sex a lot. but the truth is that if they really knew how often they would be shocked! yet it seems so natural, so comfortable, we just flow into it so beautifully. it's our daily practice of love.

so how about you all? often, seldom, too much, too infrequently?

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#16429 - 11/16/09 12:59 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: itsjustme]
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It depends-- we usually average about 3 times a week. Sometimes more-- occasionally less. It depends a lot on our schedules. We both have varying schedules. Some weeks- we hardly see each other-- other weeks we are tripping over each other!

When I get done with a 9 hr day of working retail- and get home at 11pm-- I just don't feel like it. Oh- the mind is willing, but the body sometimes isn't! lol!
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#16431 - 11/16/09 02:04 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: Firefly]
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Is not too regular for us. My schedule is pretty much 8-5 or so every day but my wife may have a regular 8-5 one day, 9-4 another, or 7-7 the next. On those late days by the time we workout together (and like Firefly said) what we want and what we have the energy to do don't quite mesh. That eliminates any thought of being "regular". But neither of us have ever wanted that anyway. Spontaneity is always better than getting into a rut. So M-F it might once or three times. Thank God we both have weekends and that so makes up for the other five days. At least twice but usually more. So to answer the question - depending on the week 4-6 times.

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#16434 - 11/16/09 05:19 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: Rocky]
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The wife and I strive for three times a week. It can be tough with kids and two jobs, but we both know intimacy is too important to ignore!

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#16437 - 11/16/09 06:57 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: JimBeam]
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yes i have to admit that our high frequency is not only due to our passion but also our opportunity. we are both self employed, so if we want a late morning, or meet for lunch we can do it. we also only have her boys half the week, so that leaves us uninterrupted evenings half the time. we have no set schedule, it just happens. a lot.


jimbeam, you really hit it dead on. intimacy is so important, even if sex is not directly involved. it's the daily practice of love, in words, in a touch, in the things you do around the house, in listening fully. all so incredibly important, along with the physical part of love.

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#16443 - 11/17/09 02:28 AM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: itsjustme]
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Itsjustme-- I just wanted to say that I really like your phrasing in that last paragraph. =] It sounds like you have a healthy, mature, and constantly growing relationship.
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#16449 - 11/17/09 12:39 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: RainbowUnderwear]
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I second that! Some men really underestimate the importance of things like listening and helping around the house.
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#16465 - 11/17/09 04:56 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: Firefly]
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My relationship has grown but now I have to spread it around because it has been a successful relationship and it only makes sense to put a tax on it.Have you every been taxed being in a relationship? It used to be only income tax because the girl could get pregnant from a relationship because of incum. But if you tax a
girl for incum, doesn't that make her out to be a prostitute. Gosh... Now they are friggin going to start taxing pregnant prostitutes. And if they don't pay their taxes they will end up screwed anyway.The question then because, if you are in a relationship,is it worth getting screwed if you are going to end up being screw in more than one way. Sound like a big pain in the ass but there are a lot of nerves around the anus.So if you are going to screw someone,only screw them once and only one way or you will be taxed twice as much and by two different people.
That's why I can't figure out why all those TV networks end up in bed with Obama.Did you know that NBC got caught in bed with Obama, and his wife accused him of taxing someone else. But at least she did say that for the first time in her adult life, that
she was proud of her husband.And what will be if NBC ends up pregnant.If GE is around and NBC ends up pregnant,would that make them more powerful than the FCC.Oh wait! GE and NBC are already the FCC. The traditional FCC is just a public relations stunt and another photo opt.
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#16475 - 11/17/09 11:08 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: Penis B. Little]
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dude, you need to get back on your medicine.

back to the thread, no matter your size, shape, schedule, or the car you drive, i believe it all comes down to the daily practice of love. promises of forever are meaningless, its what you do now, every day that makes the difference.

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#16534 - 11/20/09 03:39 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: itsjustme]
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thinking back over the last few months, i'd say we average 6-8 times a week, sometimes twice a day (or more) somedays we miss for one reason or another. btw; i'm 54 the wife is 47.
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#16546 - 11/21/09 05:10 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: itsjustme]
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Originally Posted By: itsjustme
dude, you need to get back on your medicine.

back to the thread, no matter your size, shape, schedule, or the car you drive, i believe it all comes down to the daily practice of love. promises of forever are meaningless, its what you do now, every day that makes the difference.

You mean all of that stuff flew over your head? I can assure you that the post that I wrote made perfect sense.You just have to know how to look into things. It totally political and was 100% anti-Obama. If you don't know your politics pretty well, then the whole post would be meaningless.
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My relationship has grown but now I have to spread it around because it has been a successful relationship and it only makes sense to put a tax on it.

>Obama wants to put a tax on businesses that are successful. In his campaign, Joe the plumber cornered him and he told Joe that
if he made money past a certain point, then he would "spread the wealth." Since my relationship grew and was successful, it then was supposed to be humorous because I made my relationship
successful and then needed to be spread around like a business that had grown. Since it was also successful, it would then need to be taxed also.



Have you every been taxed being in a relationship? It used to be only income tax because the girl could get pregnant from a relationship because of incum. But if you tax a
girl for incum, doesn't that make her out to be a prostitute.

>Have you ever been taxed in a relationship? refers back to the first sentence that I already explained.

Then I said that people only had to worry about income tax.Now girls would be taxed if a guy would finish in the girl, "incum"
then she could be at risk for pregnancy and would be taxed for that because of the extra money she might cost the government
because of the cost of health care that she would need before and after child birth suggesting that she would be an unwed
mother.Some women in this country actually get paid to have babies. So since she was being taxed for some guy finishing in her, then they were would end up paying her for that night that
she had the sex. Being paid for health care and having her kid
would then suggest that she would be getting paid for the cum inside her, making women that gets paid for having sex.What do they call women that get paid for having sex Excluding wives? Prostitutes!
>Gosh... Now they are friggin going to start taxing pregnant prostitutes. And if they don't pay their taxes they will end up screwed anyway.
Since the regular girl just got taxed because she got a creampie and for being pregnant and after I joked about her being a prostitute.Then that would mean that the actual pregnant prostituted would be taxed also.Being taxed for getting pregnant is not fair,so I said that she had been screwed over yet she was also screwed by her client.
I got a headache and I don't feel like going through the whole post.But it is very political in nature.


Edited by Penis B. Little (11/21/09 05:38 PM)
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#16588 - 11/24/09 03:37 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: Penis B. Little]
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when i'm together with my gf it's basically 6 times a week, and has been since we met. We're both horny people and seem to have a pretty equal libido.

But then we also have a lot of free time and can flirt all day, kiss and cuddle etc and get pretty excited. Sort of like extended foreplay.

When we are in separate countries, like now, it's not at all. God, I really miss the daily sex. Now I've only got porn and my left hand to stop me from going crazy. Damn.
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#16589 - 11/24/09 03:39 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: biker_061]
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Originally Posted By: biker_061
thinking back over the last few months, i'd say we average 6-8 times a week, sometimes twice a day (or more) somedays we miss for one reason or another. btw; i'm 54 the wife is 47.


wow, biker! That's great frequency for your age. I assume you've been together for a long time too? I'm 46 now and have gone from 2 times a week in my 20's to almost every day in my 40's.

Obviously being in the right relationship is really important.
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#16592 - 11/24/09 04:01 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: Graham]
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And having enough time.

This past week has been difficult for sex. He was working 7am- 4pm and I was working 2pm- 11pm. He was sleeping when I got home--gone when I got up. Makes it difficult.
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#16593 - 11/24/09 04:49 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: Graham]
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we've only been together for 3 1/2 years. maybe thats good,cause we might have overpopulated the place or screwed each other to death if we'd met sooner. we just are very compatable and equally horney for one another grin
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#16595 - 11/24/09 04:56 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: biker_061]
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God, i haven't had sex for a week. I'm going nuts. My left hand seems like a far-off second best.

I've been in my current relationship for almost 3 years. But I'm visiting the UK and she's back in China frown
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#16736 - 12/05/09 08:38 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: Graham]
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Generally 3 or 4 times a week. Once or twice minimum, 8 to 10 times maximum. I am 50, she is 46.

Depends a lot on our respective horninesses. The comments on intimacy are VERY important. We had a GREAT night on Friday, and we didn't have sex at all, just curled up together on my couch, ate meat pies with tomato sauce and watched a movie (The Importance of Being Ernest, with Colin Firth - what is it with women and Colin Firth - I just don't see it).

Then the next morning we went out, did some shopping, had a late brunch, arrived back at my flat around midday and suddenly - unexpectedly - had some urgent sex, started with her kneeling on the bed, half undressed and masturbating. Mmmmmmm....

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#16739 - 12/05/09 09:29 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: CFL]
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I don't see how anyone could have sex more than once a week, with the same person no less! I subscribe to Romeo and Juliet's rule of loving in small doses to last for a long time. Doesn't sex for 3 or more times a week burn anyone out? How do you keep it exciting for the whole month? Or year? Or twenty years?

Then again, because I am a virgin, I am used to the idea of being sexless for prolonged periods of time. But still...

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#16743 - 12/06/09 12:52 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: BobJo]
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i guess if your idea of sex is about the friction, in and out and etc., then yeah then why do it so often? but my friend, sex with a loving partner is so, so, so much more than that. it is an exploration that can turn up new things every time. connection, passion, tenderness, desire all come together with imagination and technique to create this amazing state of being that is hard to describe. ok, sometimes its just about the friction, but that is great too. my lover and i can go to bed at night and have an intense session, then when i wake up the next morning spooned against her she turns me on so much i want her again, and she wants me too. she just walked up and read this over my shoulder and commented that sex is a language that lovers can use to communicate with each other in an incredibly intimate way. yes to that! and in my opinion a person can never get enough of that.


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#16744 - 12/06/09 06:42 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: BobJo]
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Originally Posted By: BobJo
I don't see how anyone could have sex more than once a week, with the same person no less! I subscribe to Romeo and Juliet's rule of loving in small doses to last for a long time. Doesn't sex for 3 or more times a week burn anyone out? How do you keep it exciting for the whole month? Or year? Or twenty years?

Then again, because I am a virgin, I am used to the idea of being sexless for prolonged periods of time. But still...


well, fiction is not reality. We do it a lot because we excite each other. The secret to avoid burn-out is variety. We try not to do it the same way each time.

actually, she likes it the same way for her because it works so she can have multiple orgasms. But I like to come different ways. For example, inside her pussy, in her hand or in her mouth. Since I always come last, that's where the variety happens.

also, quite surprisingly, I want to have sex more frequently in my 40's than I did in my 20's.
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#16753 - 12/07/09 12:45 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: Graham]
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Some of my posts are long, but most of the times they are worth it.

*When I first got married I was in my early 30's, it was three times a day, and about 4 or 5 times a week.If you saw what wife's body looked like when I met her, you wouldn't have any trouble keeping up a schedule even more active than that!
Unfortunately age,and medication has slowed me down and my wife's work tires her out.Plus, not that I have anything to brag about, but some of her equipment has surcome to gravity.Some things that are large, are now much closer to the ground then they used to be.
There are also some folds there that weren't there before.I don't fault her because it's all natural.She really hasn't let herself go.

We also have my 86 year old mother walking around the house.She's just about completely deaf and yells for us at any given moment. Plus she always tries to get into the bed room when we are there trying to be alone.One never knows what's going to happen. She sometimes remembers how to unlock the door from the outside.

Needless to say, the atmosphere is not always conducive for romance, for my mother has a way to radiate tension through out the house.

But I've been studying sex and giving advice for for awhile.
If I need a fix,I can get my wife started up about 6 hours before we she ends up with me in bed.

Sex can be initiated in a matured(20 year old) marriage,or in a girl that doesn't seem to be the mood hours, before she even realizes anything.And it can all begin hours before the bedroom.

It can begin with just by a simple compliment here and there.If you can blend it in,whisper a compliment softly in her ears so to give her goose bump perhaps. Then throw in a little shoulder rub here and there.But do it lightly so that she doesn't catch on.

A hug and a kiss *small* kiss(not a lip lock) on the lips and it's just a matter of time before she falls victim.

Keep your ears open to listen to the littlest things she has to say.Respond to it so she knows that your really paying attention to her.

If you are married,and I hope you are, or living with her, do something in the house that you don't usually do.You might wash dish or two.

And the fun part is that your partner really doesn't know that your getting her ready.This is all taking place hours before you get her in bed!
It almost feels like all this is evil.

Now pick a day in which she is really not in the mood and you are.Hold hands and take your thumb and rub the inside of her palm like you do on her clit during foreplay.Or if you get the chance,rubbing licking or kissing her on wrist works on some girls .But if she is in a bad mood,skip the wrist or you may get her hand across your lips.


Casually put your arms around her.But do it very tightly. Squeeze both sides of her butt ever so lightly so that she doesn't catch onto what you're doing.

But there is one thing you must know. Amelia/Firefly taught me all this, and it really works.However Firefly never told me what she did to her husband to get her husband to initiated the sex shocked


Edited by Penis B. Little (12/07/09 12:50 PM)
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#16759 - 12/07/09 05:18 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: Penis B. Little]
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Please realize that the "Amelia" name is a joke between me and PBL! lol!
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#16788 - 12/08/09 08:40 AM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: Firefly]
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Yes. I am now going to reveal the real name of Firefly. Firefly's true name is Fire Fly.She was named that at the time of birth, when the doctor performing the delivery looked down on her and obtained an erection that caused his fly to catch fire triggering the fire alarm system that put out the fire.The
doctor survived the fire but his penis was severely injured.


Edited by Penis B. Little (12/08/09 08:50 AM)
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#16789 - 12/08/09 09:17 AM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: itsjustme]
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Originally Posted By: itsjustme
dude, you need to get back on your medicine.

back to the thread, no matter your size, shape, schedule, or the car you drive, i believe it all comes down to the daily practice of love. promises of forever are meaningless, its what you do now, every day that makes the difference.


Well said...

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#16814 - 12/08/09 06:26 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: Juls]
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Behave yourself Juls. You are in the land of the penis.
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#16822 - 12/09/09 07:16 AM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: Penis B. Little]
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Originally Posted By: Penis B. Little
Behave yourself Juls. You are in the land of the penis.


Seriously dude, find something else to do...Look at my quotes, the highlighted stuff in bold....Get over yourself!

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#16825 - 12/09/09 11:38 AM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: Juls]
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Originally Posted By: Juls
Originally Posted By: Penis B. Little
Behave yourself Juls. You are in the land of the penis.


Seriously dude, find something else to do...Look at my quotes, the highlighted stuff in bold....Get over yourself!


Agreed.

PBL, you are being a jerk. Knock it off.

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#16834 - 12/09/09 05:46 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: ]
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Jules you are right. I misread that post. I am only human.
Before this is thru I think we are all going to find out how human
we all are.And we may find out what a misunderstanding is.
I am the first one to admit that I jumped to the wrong conclusion.
The statement that I put about behaving was a tongue and cheek
sentence. I have a terrible sense of dry humor.
But I think if you go read my posts you will get a better idea of who I really am. I hope that you like what you find. I like to think that I'm likable and I know I have a big heart. My wife married me for it and it get's hurt so easily.Especially for guys that suffer the pain of thinking their penis is too small.

Simi. I think you are an excellent friend of Juls. I feel like you would fight for her through thick and thin. And I am dead serious when I write this.I am completely am serious.You are a good friend to Juls!

But I am seeing light at the end of this tunnel I seem to be in. And I feel that soon everyone will be at peace and even laugh
at what has been going on.

But I did start this whole mess over here with my last post.
I choose not to delete it because when I am guilty of something
then I will take responsibility for the things that I say that would upset people. My whole purpose for being here is to write words that encourage and bring peace to trouble minds.
Sometimes men's privates our hurt by our minds more than the pain any kick would bring. The pain of a kick goes away after awhile.But feelings that our penises are too short or too anything brings on pain that seemingly won't go away. It is my job to help the pain go away.


Edited by Penis B. Little (12/09/09 05:47 PM)
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#17260 - 12/24/09 09:39 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: Penis B. Little]
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Lately it has not been as often as my sex drive would like, but I am entering into an new relationship that I hope might lead somewhere, so that may change in the near future! Or at least I hope it does because I am very sexually attracted to her in many ways!

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#177851 - 01/25/16 08:19 AM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: itsjustme]
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At my present age of 60 old I have sex 1-2 times per week.

However prior to age 50 I had sex 3-4 times per week.

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#177915 - 04/01/16 04:04 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: itsjustme]
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Usually twice a week, I'm 66 this year.
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#177916 - 04/01/16 09:17 PM Re: how often do you have sex? [Re: DAI]
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