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#15826 - 10/31/09 01:41 AM
Will a normal/straight guy behave like this?
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stranger
Registered: 10/31/09
Posts: 2
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Hello people, I am new here. How are you doin?
Well, I have a question -err,maybe few- to ask. Last week, my close friend told me that he erected in front of other naked male-friends during he showered together at school. That moment, he had the impulse of masturbating but he did not do it at last as he felt very 'gay' that he erected in front of other naked friends ( but others did not show any erection.) Then, this problem has obsessed him for a long time, as he doesnt know whether he is straight / bi / homo. But, he like girls and doesnt want to be homo. He feels disgusting when he imagines that he has a date with guy.
As I never shower together with other naked male friends, I just wanna help him to solve this out.
1)Is here any guy who erected in front of other naked male friends before (without watching pronography)?
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Will you(male) erect when seeing a group of naked guys (just naked, during bath)? or jerking guy?
2)Will he become homo? < he concerns this very much!
3)Will guys curious on other guys' penis size/ body/ etc?
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#15827 - 10/31/09 01:42 AM
Re: Will a normal/straight guy behave like this?
[Re: Curiousity]
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stranger
Registered: 10/31/09
Posts: 2
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Thanks for solving this out for me...err...my friend. Have a nice day. Best regards.
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#16108 - 11/06/09 11:31 PM
Re: Will a normal/straight guy behave like this?
[Re: Curiousity]
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member
Registered: 05/24/09
Posts: 110
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Frankly.. I'm erected when seeing young people erected either female or male. But there are differences. If seeing a female naked, i will immediately imagine about fucking her or she giving me an oral sex. If it's man, i imagine i'm the one naked as he is at the moment.
I have watch lot of videos of guy naked, bath or jerking. Yes, i erected during seeing those.
I don't thick he will become homo and by the way, almost every guy curious on other guy's penis size/body/etc. In penis case, he may curious either his penis normal size compare to others
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I'm a person who is having a really high curiosity
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#16117 - 11/07/09 02:11 AM
Re: Will a normal/straight guy behave like this?
[Re: Nexus891225]
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member
Registered: 08/14/09
Posts: 169
Loc: Brit in Shanghai, China
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I don't really know. Maybe you should check some surveys. I think if a guy gets excited by just seeing other guys naked (flaccid or erect) then he's probably bi or gay.
I never get excited just seeing a penis in any state. If I watch porno I'll get excited if it's a man and a woman because I imagine the guy is me. But I get no feelings about the penis. I'm curious, of course, but not excited.
I don't think he should be ashamed if he's gay or bi. It's pretty acceptable and probably fun these days, in most enlightened societies. I think gay guys have more fun than straights. They can get laid much more easily, I think.
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it's better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all. Carpe Diem!
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#16134 - 11/07/09 02:45 PM
Re: Will a normal/straight guy behave like this?
[Re: Graham]
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member
Registered: 02/27/09
Posts: 116
Loc: United Kingdom
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Hi Curiosity,
Put simply, having an erection in front of a group of men does not make one gay. We have erections for many different reasons and one of which is stress. Being naked with a group of other men can be stressful, we all remember that first time in the showers at school, I remember mine as if it were yesterday! Being aroused by the sight of other naked individuals be they male or female is quite natural and in no way is related to sexuality. I consider myself to be straight but I believe that there is a little bi-curious streak in all of us, myself included. But these thoughts are nothing to be ashamed or disgusted about, especially if you are young and still discovering your own sexuality.
So to answer your questions:
1) YES actually, that happened to me, it was at a swimming pool changing room when I was about 18 or 19, I was unaware of it at the time but as I pulled my pants down I noticed to my horror that I was sporting a hefty erection. Luckily for me nobody noticed as there were only three other blokes in there and they were talking amongst themselves so I turned around and put my swimming shorts on as quickly as I could.
2) NO, 'he' won't become gay, as I said earlier we have erections for many reasons and having an erection in front of other people doesn't mean that you are turned on by what you are seeing. So don't worry about it.
3) Not quite sure what you mean here but if I'm correct you are asking whether or not it makes one gay to compare the size of your penis with those of other men. The answer to this is again a resounding NO. It's totally natural, males will always size each other up and it's as true for human males as it is for males of all species.
I hope this helps but remember one thing, if you are gay or bi it really doesn't matter as long as you are secure in your own sexuality and considerate of the the feelings of others. That's the important thing.
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#16135 - 11/07/09 03:44 PM
Re: Will a normal/straight guy behave like this?
[Re: Ratty]
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journeyman
Registered: 10/18/09
Posts: 87
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Don't agree that we're all bi-curious. I know I've no interest and never had any interest doing anything sexual with another man.
Being aroused by the site of other naked men does mean the person has some gay tendencies. However, anybody can get an erection at anytime, especially when you're a teenager.
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