Hello people, I am new here. How are you doin?

Well, I have a question -err,maybe few- to ask.
Last week, my close friend told me that he erected in front of other naked male-friends during he showered together at school. That moment, he had the impulse of masturbating but he did not do it at last as he felt very 'gay' that he erected in front of other naked friends ( but others did not show any erection.) Then, this problem has obsessed him for a long time, as he doesnt know whether he is straight / bi / homo. But, he like girls and doesnt want to be homo. He feels disgusting when he imagines that he has a date with guy.

As I never shower together with other naked male friends, I just wanna help him to solve this out.

1)Is here any guy who erected in front of other naked male friends before (without watching pronography)?

or

Will you(male) erect when seeing a group of naked guys (just naked, during bath)? or jerking guy?

2)Will he become homo? < he concerns this very much!

3)Will guys curious on other guys' penis size/ body/ etc?

Thanks for solving this out for me...err...my friend.
Have a nice day.
Best regards.

Frankly..
I'm erected when seeing young people erected either female or male.
But there are differences. If seeing a female naked, i will immediately imagine about fucking her or she giving me an oral sex.
If it's man, i imagine i'm the one naked as he is at the moment.

I have watch lot of videos of guy naked, bath or jerking. Yes, i erected during seeing those.

I don't thick he will become homo and by the way, almost every guy curious on other guy's penis size/body/etc. In penis case, he may curious either his penis normal size compare to others

I don't really know. Maybe you should check some surveys. I think if a guy gets excited by just seeing other guys naked (flaccid or erect) then he's probably bi or gay.

I never get excited just seeing a penis in any state. If I watch porno I'll get excited if it's a man and a woman because I imagine the guy is me. But I get no feelings about the penis. I'm curious, of course, but not excited.

I don't think he should be ashamed if he's gay or bi. It's pretty acceptable and probably fun these days, in most enlightened societies. I think gay guys have more fun than straights. They can get laid much more easily, I think.

Hi Curiosity,

Put simply, having an erection in front of a group of men does not make one gay. We have erections for many different reasons and one of which is stress. Being naked with a group of other men can be stressful, we all remember that first time in the showers at school, I remember mine as if it were yesterday!
Being aroused by the sight of other naked individuals be they male or female is quite natural and in no way is related to sexuality. I consider myself to be straight but I believe that there is a little bi-curious streak in all of us, myself included.
But these thoughts are nothing to be ashamed or disgusted about, especially if you are young and still discovering your own sexuality.

So to answer your questions:

1) YES actually, that happened to me, it was at a swimming pool changing room when I was about 18 or 19, I was unaware of it at the time but as I pulled my pants down I noticed to my horror that I was sporting a hefty erection. Luckily for me nobody noticed as there were only three other blokes in there and they were talking amongst themselves so I turned around and put my swimming shorts on as quickly as I could.

2) NO, 'he' won't become gay, as I said earlier we have erections for many reasons and having an erection in front of other people doesn't mean that you are turned on by what you are seeing. So don't worry about it.

3) Not quite sure what you mean here but if I'm correct you are asking whether or not it makes one gay to compare the size of your penis with those of other men. The answer to this is again a resounding NO. It's totally natural, males will always size each other up and it's as true for human males as it is for males of all species.

I hope this helps but remember one thing, if you are gay or bi it really doesn't matter as long as you are secure in your own sexuality and considerate of the the feelings of others.
That's the important thing.

Don't agree that we're all bi-curious. I know I've no interest and never had any interest doing anything sexual with another man.

Being aroused by the site of other naked men does mean the person has some gay tendencies. However, anybody can get an erection at anytime, especially when you're a teenager.

Well Curiousity, I think anyone gets aroused by seeing another nude person. Im married, love sex with my wife, but also enjoy looking at men's equipment, and I know they enjoy looking at mine.

I do something, strange whenever I can, I masturbate for men on my web cam. You would not believe the comments I get back. Yet I have never had any sexual desire for a man, and have never been alone with one, and don't want to be.

So I think the answer to your question is yes a normal/straight guy does behave like that.

To answer your query,Curiosity,i agree with Ratty,as you may know i am a nudist,and in the past,and sometimes even now,as a nudist,i get erect in front of men and women,it did ounce bother me, but no more,other men i have seen on nude beaches also get erections,it doesn't make you gay.and as a male i like being looked at naked,and looking at mens dicks as they look at mine.it certainly does'nt make you in any way gay, just curious.when i was a teen,a long time ago i would get erections for any reason,so stop worrying,my partner also checks out other naked women,she says things,like,she's got nice tits or she needs to shave her pubs,.

Its a diificult Q the person is asking. That fact that he gets an erection when in the shower with guys is a bit disturbing for me, it does not mean he is gay, but it is disturbing.
however as this is a school shower session you speak about, it may just be that he is a over hormoned young man like many are at that age , and it could be normal at that age when any thing arouses you... who knows, i cant be conclusive here, too mant things involved.
I was in the military for 2 years and we had communual showers where up to 20 guys are in the shower at one time. I never ever saw any guy get a woody, maybe they wanted to but were to too shit scared to, who knows but i never saw it happen.
However i think its quite normal to have a glance at another man's package in the shower... mostly its out of curiousity, and when you do, you make sure no one is looking.

of course the golden rule applies... nver drop the soap!

Just as i have mentioned before,while at a nude resort,and chatting to another couple,when we parted the guy on passing me,fondled my cock,odd i now and it didn't get me erect,but a teenager,getting erect on seing other naked guys,i can see that it could happen to some,,does that make you gay? NO,i dont think so.when i was younger my dick had a will of its own and would get erect anytime anywhere,it still does today.so don't worry about it.and if a man says he never looks at other naked mens cocks,well i do, curiousity i guess.

WTF?

How is this a difficult question? And what could possibly be disturbing about his experience? You're disturbed because he's not sufficiently repressed yet?

He's male. Males get erections, particularly in contexts where there are other genitalia visible - male or female. It just happens. At first it can be embarrassing, and after a while we become more comfortable with our bodies - at least hopefully.

Of course it doesn't mean he's "gay' any more than it means he's any other label, other than perhaps "healthy male."