I have been married to the same wife for 20 years and it has only been the last 6 months that I have actually known what I was doing. But I became puzzled because she didn't seem to have a sex
drive. Just like yesterday, I walked into the room an it looked like my wife was about to take her usual afternoon nap.Then suddenly after a few months of not having a sex drive, I decided that I might massage one of those hot spots on her arm that I learned from my studies.I got a weird result.He whole body twitched just as if I had touched her on the clit. But it couldn't be.It had to be a coincidence.Then just for the heck of it,I massaged the inside of he thigh. And low and behold, her whole body twitched again.So I got real bold that mushed her crotch even though she was wearing pants.
All of a sudden she had all this sex drive in her. And the rest of the afternoon was spent in bliss.
Then I got very depressed because I started to think of all those naps she used to take just like she did yesterday.
I never knew until yesterday, what her signals were when she wanted sex and it was so hidden that if i didn't know what part to touch on her, she probably would have drifted off to sleep.
Guys need to read Firefly's articles to make sure you can check if there is a start button on your partner and you may not have a clue where it is.

PBL, your wife herself probably didn't even know about her own hotspots. People seem to think that the only way to turn a woman on is breast play or cunnilingus. I've learnt in the last four and a half years that my whole body is very sexually responsive. My boyfriend once nearly made me orgasm in front of my daughter by stroking the inside of my wrist, while on a train. I pulled away and later told him what happened. So he tried it during a lovemaking session and, yep, I orgasmed.

I know that many women haven't had this happen to them and I don't know for sure if it's something lying inside of us all, just waiting for the right trigger. I do know that my mother has this capability. After I got the nerve to tell her of my "quirk", she confessed that she prefers nipple or ear orgasms to clitoral ones.

I've also almost, almost, almost got my boyfriend cumming from nibbling, licking and sucking his ears. My first boyfriend also claimed he nearly orgasmed from me playing with his nipples. So I don't even think it's only a female thing.

I'm glad your explorations have been successful. Don't stop exploring! And the hotspots can increase as she gets older, too. Mine have.

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I know that many women haven't had this happen to them and I don't know for sure if it's something lying inside of us all, just waiting for the right trigger. I do know that my mother has this capability. After I got the nerve to tell her of my "quirk", she confessed that she prefers nipple or ear orgasms to clitoral ones.



It's so unfortunate that more mothers apparently aren't more open with their daughters about their sexuality. Probably the same is true of fathers and their sons. I guess my wife and I were lucky in that respect. Both our parents are at ease and its so obvious that they have wonderful open physical relationships. My wife said her mother had told her since her early teens how important it is to communicate her feelings and be willing to explore.

Plus, you both have to be observant. Not that I have ever really had a fetish (or never realized it as such) but when we first met I kind of noticed (besides everything else about her)that she has very cute little feet, and early in our relationship we'd be curled up on the couch together and she would almost "unconsciously" be playing with her toes and begin to squirm a little as she did. I remember wondering if there might be something more to it than just a little habit and caught her kind of half napping one afternoon and gently began touching her toes and rubbing them between my fingers. Stirring a little she got this impish smile on her face and lifted her toes to my mouth and I guessed exactly what she wanted. I don't think it took more than a few minutes, and I couldn't believe that was all she needed. And the rest of the afternoon... well... She later told me that she was going to tell me about her little foot thing but was so happy that I had discovered it on my own. Though she admitted she had hoped I had noticed her playing with her toes. After all the time we've been together she still loves to have that button pushed. Of course we've both found other hotspots since then.

It's so important to communicate and discover what works for both partners in any relationship from the beginning. PBL, it's wonderful that you've discovered the subtle signals you wife has been sending, but wouldn't it have been nice to have found out a long time ago. But I know you'll make the most of what you have together now. And for everyone, male and female, talk to each other, explore, and try new things. What's the worst that can happen? Something doesn't turn you on? So what? Something else will.

Yes, I like to explore.When I have sex I can't stop from saying,
"Tranquility Base Here. The Eagle Has Landed."

Don't get lost!

Oh I never get lost. Even when people have told me to,. I just hang in there and I grow on them.But I have to admit that everything I said was just about women.When men have told me to get lost,I have.But I don't hold "it" against them because i'm just not in that lifestyle.And I'm not putting anyone down even though nothing has ever gone up. But again now that I am getting older on meds, things are more and difficult get up for everybody.
So thats why I say that the Eagle Has Landed.It used to be so easy to life off and launch.And sometimes the launch has to be scratched and that is just plain gross.
But at least I don't have premature ejection.Like the time
the Japanese government sent 44 million does of Viagra to us here in Florida.The saw that there was a Bush around and all of
Florida was having trouble having an election especially when it involved a Bush. Some people prefer to the Bush a Beaver.
But in was entirely inappropriate to say the Bush was a Beaver
The animal activist would all get upset when they announced "Ladies and Gentlemen,I bring you the 43'd president of The President of the United States, President Beaver.And ladies and
gentlemen I bring you the 41st President of the United States
President and his wife Barbara Beaver.Oh sorry Ladies and Gentlemen as she most honorable prefers to be call Mrs Barbara
Bush-Beaver. And if you are old enough wouldn't I would trust him.The Beaver's brother has a friend Eddie Hasscle.And just plain mean to the Beaver.He makes fun of the height of the beaver but the beaver still needed to grow which brings us right back the The Bush.I think this post is ,not like myself,getting to long.But the whole Bush family needs to shave. They and myself look more longer and no longer. So you got me going.Your the second girls that caught me joking off.

Haskell. It's Eddie Haskell. And I don't think he ever fooled Mrs. Beaver for a second.

Tour right. Mrs Bush Beaver new what Eddie was at their house for. But the programing then was much too family orientated to air what he wanted.So instead of airing his motives, they made it censored and transformed Eddie into a mischievous teen instead of the horny
character that they depicted in the show.
But I am confident that during lunch breaks, he came out of his character and has sexual relations with that woman, Mrs Beaver Bush
But even though everybody really knew what was going on in their break time, Eddie still was firm and said that the allegations were
false and demanded to go back and continue to do the work of the American people.
And no one ever really witness anything and there was no DNA technology back then. So they continued to hook up even into her
later 70's. That lady could make a lot of money on those gossip news paper.
So the moral of the story is that it is better to hide the beaver in the bush then to shave it off and get busted. She did have a pretty good bust and that was easy to see in black and white. They may have been overrated in color. But that was in the old school. Where a person is judged by the shape of the size but
by the feel of them.
And one day in a vision, I can see little cup A boobs walking next to large firm breast and respected for th boobs that they really are

I know. Most of that probably flew over your head. Just believe me that I agree with you exactly, except for that small extion in which I am in total opposition too. I think we think the same and we have our reasons for agreeing on those important sections. But bear in mind that the small part that we don't agree with is a very important part to a lot of people.Therefore I would also have to agree with you on those small parts that are really important. A the other stuff can be up for debate but I will never change my mind on those matters because I'm really impulsive on subjects like it is.
The moral to the story is that you may agree on the important stuff, the things important but.
small thing can cause big problems that may be debated but of you can't agree on the small stuff, it is important that you agree on the important things. And we already discussed that we are in agreement on the important stuff.