I'm much relieved to hear that! Whew. At least mine are in proportion with my body. They seem to go with my frame-- not grossly huge or anything. I've always been curvy!

MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM, Curves! (Imagine the Homer Simspon voice there)Proportion is ALWAYS a good thing.

Dear Firefly

Out of curiosity what would you do to pursue a man you really like. flirting does not seem to do the trick. He seems oh say unaware of female flirtiung teqniques.

Waht are some of the clues we clueless men need to look for in the subtle language of seduction.

Kingpole

Me personally? If a man was totally clueless to my subtle flirting, I would probably be more direct. Maybe ask him if he'd like to hang out, or invite him somewhere. I would ask him questions about his interests- and maybe see if I could join him sometime if he's interested for example in skiing, or fishing, or going to the races... etc..

Also, lots of eye contact. I usually make eye contact with people, but eye contact that lasts a bit longer can show interest in someone as well.

If he still didn't get it-- I suppose I'd move onto someone a bit more aware!


The language of seduction- now that is a lengthy topic if you're speaking in general. I think I may have to write an article about that topic.

DO IT!!!

Here is something that will help you guys out..with 6" you shouldn't be paranoid.You got blessed and you have a perfect tool there.
When I am feeling down because I have a 4 incher, I just remember that lesbians don't have any problem statisfying their partners and they have zero penis.
Also my wife loves me.She didn't marry me for my penis.Case and point.I made it my goal to read and find out what to do and how to do it to make my wife happy and that is my goal when we're together.I don't condon pornography nor lesbianism but I studied some of their vids to see what they do to please their partners.You can learn alot from those vids if you study them for education and not to get a turn on. Also I ready some very good articles about hot spots on women and what they like in general.Also Firefly really know her stuff and you should ask her all the questions you want and she will tell you some awesome stuff that turns women on.She charges $10/hr for private messages... Just Kidding!!!!!

PBL Wrote: Also Firefly really know her stuff and you should ask her all the questions you want and she will tell you some awesome stuff that turns women on.She charges $10/hr for private messages...

My reply:

PBL- you should know that I am worth so much more then that! hee hee

Honestly I just like dicks.

That is on film or paper. In real life, like many women it's the man attached to the penis that counts, if he's loving and considerate, I'm his.

I'll be honest and say that I haven't been with a smaller man but I've been with 4 Mr Averages, 1 Mr SlightlyBiggerThanAverage and 1 Mr Huge. I could only fit Mr Huge in with difficulty but most of the time he shot off at my entrance. Mr SlightlyBiggerThanAverage never got rock hard so again I had difficulty getting him in. The 4 Mr Averages varied in sexual skill from absolute nightmare to total bliss. Although they would have been within half an inch of each other in size the way they treated me made all the difference.

Mr Huge never lasted long enough for me to find out if I could orgasm from his penis so I don't really know if I could get as much pleasure from a big one as I do from my boyfriend who is the smallest of the Mr Averages but I doubt if I would. My boyfriend's dick is the perfect length to stimulate my G-spot and he is the only one that I've had vaginal orgasms with. I also enjoy being able to take his entire penis into my mouth, something I could never do with the two big ones.

Regarding women buying larger dildoes, I think that is more for the novelty rather than physical enjoyment. I've other women's comments on several forums and most seem to prefer smaller vibrators. I personally prefer to orgasm with something slim inside (usually just my own finger) rather than a big juicy dildo.

Okay, I have a question. Now, I'm new and I don't want to sound offensive, but it sounds like a lot of the females do not like bigger penises. Just a simple observation. For me, I'm still a virgin, so I'm a little insecure about my whole penis size and everything. According to what everyone is saying, 6" is average. I personally, am an 8" guy.

So, my question is, if a guy knew how to pleasure a girl and was good at foreplay and everything, would a woman prefer a man with a larger penis, like mine, or with a smaller one? I mean, the exact same guy, caring and everything, but the women could choose if they wanted a big one or a smaller one.

It would make me feel a lot better if someone could give me an answer for this. I wasn't feeling insecure about the size until i starting reading some of these answers. lol.

Firefly, I understand your frustration at men being obsessed with size more than women.

What if, like in my case, you are with a woman who has been with a "big" guy and has talked about how great it was.

Is she not one of those women who cause men to be so obsessed?

YOU, may have reasaon to be frustrated, you most likely have never caused a man such a problem. But our obsession, and pain is justified when there are women propagating the problem.

Your thoughts?